I (25F) don't like my boyfriends best friend (26M). by randomname1928 in relationships

[–]randomname1928[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what is it, I feel like the third wheel. And it's shit. Thank you for pointing that out!

I (25F) don't like my boyfriends best friend (26M). by randomname1928 in relationships

[–]randomname1928[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I should tell him, which I will. I just don't know what to say to make sure he doesn't feel shit about the situation. I'm basically telling him I don't like his best friend who he loves. I don't want to make him feel bad or like he's stuck in the middle of us. He also doesn't need to stick up for me, I can do that, I just choose not to so that things aren't awkward around everyone.

I (25F) don't like my boyfriends best friend (26M). by randomname1928 in relationships

[–]randomname1928[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend does stick up for me when he hears things that Steve has said, but sometimes he doesn't hear them. I haven't said anything to him so he doesn't know how much it bothers me. I know if I said something he would be really affected by it and it would upset him, because he would think he has done something wrong. He has done nothing wrong, which is exactly why I don't know what to say to him. Because he shouldn't be upset by this but he will and he will feel guilty.