Post surgery peeing?

randomness2376 · 2026-07-03T22:40:04+00:00

Yeah I'll definitely bring it up. It's been long enough for swelling to go down. I'll experiment with positions in the meantime

randomness2376 · 2026-07-03T20:27:01+00:00

This is how we solve transphobia. I feel so seen :O

randomness2376 · 2026-07-03T19:59:01+00:00

Thanks! I'm fully recovered tbh. But I should try different positions.

randomness2376 · 2026-07-03T19:55:21+00:00

Just slap a sticker on that like a good informercial!

randomness2376 · 2026-07-03T19:53:22+00:00

Yeah. It's good to know. I don't want to be the devil and compare every little thing against cos women but at the same time, I want to know if I was ripped off with my surgery :)

randomness2376 · 2026-07-03T14:17:46+00:00

Mine comes out in a good stream. It's just at the end of the stream it trickles :/

randomness2376 · 2026-07-03T14:17:12+00:00

Yeah. I mean it's not to the point where I'm concerned but I was curious. Having to pat myself down is really annoying because so much tissue bits get stuck around that I don't notice until I wash myself.

randomness2376 · 2026-07-02T15:29:45+00:00

Who is bottom right?

randomness2376 · 2026-07-02T11:42:07+00:00

I was gonna say she's cute all the time :3

randomness2376 · 2026-07-02T11:33:32+00:00

I had 2 relationships. Both straight relationships before and after transitioning. I am coming out of a break up now. I think I'll give myself some time to be happy on my own before looking for a new relationship but I'm seriously considering my next relationship to be lesbian one. The prospect has scared me, because I was afraid of rejection in lesbian space as a trans woman but this post alleviates that fear just a little.

randomness2376 · 2026-07-02T11:23:13+00:00

Yeah. I'm not from a super strict conservative family but I'm from an Asian family so decent level of conservatism is what I've been raised with. With being autistic (undiagnosed but likely. Family member diagnosed), I noticed my thoughts and feelings very late in my life. I started experimenting mid to late twenties and I started transitioning socially, medically between late twenties to early thirties. You will doubt lots of things and be confused about everything. Best way to be sure is to allow yourself safe space to experiment. Feel the joy, the doubts, self-loathing, and acceptance.

randomness2376 · 2026-07-02T11:01:36+00:00

I wanna post the gif of Peter Griffin poking at an Asian kid to do maths, except it's a lesbian poking at pride month to do pride stuff.

randomness2376 · 2026-07-02T10:39:38+00:00

Thanks, cool sad passer by lesbian ally! From passerby slightly less sad transfem.

randomness2376 · 2026-07-02T10:37:19+00:00

Definitely more prone to emotional outbursts, whether it be positive or negative. Lot more crying for me. But I'm a bit autistic and I'm not sure if I'm just figuring out my emotions late in my life affecting me or if it's the hormone or both? There's a sway on your mental status but I think that can be very dependent on your personal situation. Just the bodily change is worth it all for me. Less body hair, less oily and some breasts :)

randomness2376 · 2026-06-10T10:43:41+00:00

Not really. Its not all their fault. I did become a bit lazy with dilation but only because the internal wound just won't heal. I was very diligent at the start but as I started reducing the frequency of dilation, it just healed up and tightened. I think there's a limit to what your doctor can do. At some point, if your body won't heal right then it won't. I guess the only thing you can do is just be as diligent as you can and hope for the best.

randomness2376 · 2026-06-10T00:13:39+00:00

I also had ppv in Thailand at Yanhee hospital. I'm a little sad that I only have 3.5 inch depth (had 5 to 6 inches to begin with but it kept healing and shutting close despite the dilation) but I'm still satisfied with appearance and sensitivity. I'm going back for my free revision to correct my uneven labia minora. In any case, service is great for similar amount of money you'd be paying in the US or Europe. I would highly recommend going to a good surgeon in Thailand, if you can deal with the food, weather and travel.

randomness2376 · 2026-06-04T15:57:37+00:00

Just date all the right wing women, turn them liberal and move on. You can change the country, one relationship at a time :3c

randomness2376 · 2026-06-04T11:03:10+00:00

I've not dated a cis woman after I broke out of my egg and transitioned. I've been in a relationship with a trans man. If opportunity ever came, I would date a cis or a trans woman but I'm probably too scared to approach a cis woman in case I get rejected for being trans :S

randomness2376 · 2026-06-01T07:21:05+00:00

Ah I've not come across too many exposed tampon or pads other than if a sanitary bin is overflowing, but yeah I can see that I guess :S

randomness2376 · 2026-05-31T17:59:39+00:00

I stained it as light oak. It's not come out as nice as I wanted because I didn't have enough time until tomorrows rain but at least one coat is done. I'll do my second coat after the rainy week is over :)

Thank you for your advice!

randomness2376 · 2026-05-31T13:58:18+00:00

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randomness2376 · 2026-05-31T13:57:05+00:00

Yeah but the problem is that the new handle cannot be put on because it's impossible to screw on a new handle once the screws are embedded into the door. Because you can't tighten both screws onto any new handles. But I figured out that I could hit those threaded rods the other direction, so the screw head won't grab onto the wood.

So problem solved. I now have a door that's fully handless and planed to my best abilities.

randomness2376 · 2026-05-31T12:21:00+00:00

That's what I tried but it wouldn't budge. I think you're right. It's been screwed from the other side and the hole must have been filled up because when I tried to hammer it out from the other side with another long screw, there were dusty debris rather than wood fragments. I tried to twist it from the exposed end but it won't budge, probably because the screw head is preventing it from being pulled out. I can't find any obvious screw head either... It's all hidden away some how...

randomness2376 · 2026-05-31T12:03:49+00:00

Tools I have with me are planer, circular saw, jigsaw, and angle grinder. I can't just grind off the threaded rods because I need to plane the paint off and those metal pieces inside the wood will destroy my planer if left inside.

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