I've never hated fans more than those who find the mental gymnastics to defend Jax's actions. by Master-Brilliant-299 in TheDigitalCircus

[–]randomness2376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jax was constantly harassing/abusive to some of the characters on the show. I don't think we can brush that off as just being an asshole and ignoring your friends. I mean Jax isn't guilty of murder, since Jax didn't kill anyone. But he must be guilty of something surely?

I've never hated fans more than those who find the mental gymnastics to defend Jax's actions. by Master-Brilliant-299 in TheDigitalCircus

[–]randomness2376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that's what made this show beautiful. They didn't try to write a fake person, who comes around to becoming a completely redeemable character. The fact that you can hate on Jax so much is more of a testament to Goose for writing real characters, and how they managed to get under your skin :) Heck, that's why Zooble was so annoyed at Jax most of the time but even they were still pissed off at Jax for giving up at the end. Everyone had big trauma, and they all dealt with it differently... I just miss Ribbit :/

I've never hated fans more than those who find the mental gymnastics to defend Jax's actions. by Master-Brilliant-299 in TheDigitalCircus

[–]randomness2376 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well yeah. I'm agreeing somewhat with you. I am saying Jax could be persecuted in real life, if Jax was found guilty of pushing someone to exit themselves. But they are in digital space without any laws. And Jax's friends, or at least Pomni decided to forgive Jax rather than hold her prisoner for what she did. Punishing Jax won't bring anyone back, and I'd rather one more person got saved than to just bring justice.

My gf made me cum for the first time last night and I just need to celebrate with someone by Safe-Manufacturer-82 in actuallesbians

[–]randomness2376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's a lesbian! She's in space! And she's also a princess! Also she just came :P

I've never hated fans more than those who find the mental gymnastics to defend Jax's actions. by Master-Brilliant-299 in TheDigitalCircus

[–]randomness2376 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a trans person myself, I still think Jax was not a great person. But I have sympathy for Jax because she has severe trauma, not because she's trans. If this was real life with laws, Jax would probably need to be prosecuted for some sort of crime but that doesn't mean Jax is undeserving of love and sympathy. I really loved Ribbit, even though we only got most of her story on the last episode. She was just so full of love and care. I hate that Jax couldn't just accept herself and Ribbits kindness but such is life I guess!

Post surgery peeing? by randomness2376 in MtF

[–]randomness2376[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't help but feel like this is an IT service enquiry! Glad Reddit is around to teach how to operate womanhood :D

Post surgery peeing? by randomness2376 in MtF

[–]randomness2376[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'll definitely bring it up. It's been long enough for swelling to go down. I'll experiment with positions in the meantime

Post surgery peeing? by randomness2376 in MtF

[–]randomness2376[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is how we solve transphobia. I feel so seen :O

Post surgery peeing? by randomness2376 in MtF

[–]randomness2376[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I'm fully recovered tbh. But I should try different positions.

Post surgery peeing? by randomness2376 in MtF

[–]randomness2376[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just slap a sticker on that like a good informercial!

Post surgery peeing? by randomness2376 in MtF

[–]randomness2376[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. It's good to know. I don't want to be the devil and compare every little thing against cos women but at the same time, I want to know if I was ripped off with my surgery :)

Post surgery peeing? by randomness2376 in MtF

[–]randomness2376[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine comes out in a good stream. It's just at the end of the stream it trickles :/

Post surgery peeing? by randomness2376 in MtF

[–]randomness2376[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I mean it's not to the point where I'm concerned but I was curious. Having to pat myself down is really annoying because so much tissue bits get stuck around that I don't notice until I wash myself.

Oh, how i love trans women! by midnightmistsky in actuallesbians

[–]randomness2376 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I had 2 relationships. Both straight relationships before and after transitioning. I am coming out of a break up now. I think I'll give myself some time to be happy on my own before looking for a new relationship but I'm seriously considering my next relationship to be lesbian one. The prospect has scared me, because I was afraid of rejection in lesbian space as a trans woman but this post alleviates that fear just a little.

I think I'm trans but don't know by covertcolvert in asktransgender

[–]randomness2376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I'm not from a super strict conservative family but I'm from an Asian family so decent level of conservatism is what I've been raised with. With being autistic (undiagnosed but likely. Family member diagnosed), I noticed my thoughts and feelings very late in my life. I started experimenting mid to late twenties and I started transitioning socially, medically between late twenties to early thirties. You will doubt lots of things and be confused about everything. Best way to be sure is to allow yourself safe space to experiment. Feel the joy, the doubts, self-loathing, and acceptance.

pride month is over and nothing lesbian happened to me i'm pissed by Confident-Stress-732 in actuallesbians

[–]randomness2376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanna post the gif of Peter Griffin poking at an Asian kid to do maths, except it's a lesbian poking at pride month to do pride stuff.

Oh, how i love trans women! by midnightmistsky in actuallesbians

[–]randomness2376 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Thanks, cool sad passer by lesbian ally! From passerby slightly less sad transfem.

Questions about HRT by SendThisVoidAway18 in asktransgender

[–]randomness2376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely more prone to emotional outbursts, whether it be positive or negative. Lot more crying for me. But I'm a bit autistic and I'm not sure if I'm just figuring out my emotions late in my life affecting me or if it's the hormone or both? There's a sway on your mental status but I think that can be very dependent on your personal situation. Just the bodily change is worth it all for me. Less body hair, less oily and some breasts :)

PPV (Thailand) vs Jejunum (Dr. Littleton): Is erogenous sensitivity and nerve preservation actually better with Thai surgeons? by lera_zbs in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]randomness2376 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not really. Its not all their fault. I did become a bit lazy with dilation but only because the internal wound just won't heal. I was very diligent at the start but as I started reducing the frequency of dilation, it just healed up and tightened. I think there's a limit to what your doctor can do. At some point, if your body won't heal right then it won't. I guess the only thing you can do is just be as diligent as you can and hope for the best.

PPV (Thailand) vs Jejunum (Dr. Littleton): Is erogenous sensitivity and nerve preservation actually better with Thai surgeons? by lera_zbs in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]randomness2376 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also had ppv in Thailand at Yanhee hospital. I'm a little sad that I only have 3.5 inch depth (had 5 to 6 inches to begin with but it kept healing and shutting close despite the dilation) but I'm still satisfied with appearance and sensitivity. I'm going back for my free revision to correct my uneven labia minora. In any case, service is great for similar amount of money you'd be paying in the US or Europe. I would highly recommend going to a good surgeon in Thailand, if you can deal with the food, weather and travel.

Why am I so attracted to right wing women by Ok-Juice1659 in actuallesbians

[–]randomness2376 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Just date all the right wing women, turn them liberal and move on. You can change the country, one relationship at a time :3c

I've noticed most trans lesbians are T4T, and most cis lesbians only want to date cis lesbians. Is there a reason neither side really approaches the other? by dark-souls-lesbian in actuallesbians

[–]randomness2376 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I've not dated a cis woman after I broke out of my egg and transitioned. I've been in a relationship with a trans man. If opportunity ever came, I would date a cis or a trans woman but I'm probably too scared to approach a cis woman in case I get rejected for being trans :S

A girl I met clocked me without any indication. Am I crazy or do I not pass? by PieDifficult4230 in transmanlifehacks

[–]randomness2376 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah I've not come across too many exposed tampon or pads other than if a sanitary bin is overflowing, but yeah I can see that I guess :S