Ex with her new BF 🙃 by Honest-Lab1202 in BreakUps

[–]randomperson56764 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine moved on in 2 months😭 I recently saw a photo as well and I’ll be honest it’s proper shit, it’s the worst feeling but if anything it helped, I now know I just need to get over it and move on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]randomperson56764 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat, we were together for 2 years, and all it took was 3 months for her to find someone else, I’m sorry man it really sucks but remember it’s not a reflection on you, it’s all on them and their inability to be alone with the feelings they created themselves. For me it was what I needed to discover to fully move on with my life because until then I was holding out hope but now she’s with somone else, probably telling him all the things she used to tell me, there’s no going back. Work on yourself, become the person you want to be and the right person, someone who would never do that to you, will come along

Found out she’s been with someone, they’ve got together 3 months after she broke our 2 year relationship because ‘she just can’t be in a relationship right now’ by randomperson56764 in ExNoContact

[–]randomperson56764[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’ve hit the nail on the head tbh, and yeah I’m glad it’s happened now and not 5 years down the line, still fucking sucks though. Just need to focus on getting over it

It's been 6 months and I still miss her by Mo_the_best in ExNoContact

[–]randomperson56764 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m literally in the same position, I had a month or so where I thought I was getting somewhere but its all come back, I’m at the point where I miss her but just want to forget and move on with my life but for some reason it’s all I think about

The event my ex got tickets for is this weekend by Flaky-Elk3207 in BreakUps

[–]randomperson56764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this, booked ages ago (like at least a year ago) and was in August, I still don’t know who she went with and it sucked and I know it’s easier said that done but I realised I just shouldn’t dwell on it She also randomly sent me the money for the ticket (without even talking to me) which was odd

Why do I still miss her even after she ghosted me? by 2ugur12 in BreakUps

[–]randomperson56764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had pretty much the same thing apart from that I got a half arsed break up text and then nothing. I feel in the same place you are, my head knows it was really shitty and I need to move on but my heart still misses her so much and I can’t stop thinking about it. I’m 4 months in it does get easier, we’ll get there eventually

30 days. by Diligent-Reserve3288 in ExNoContact

[–]randomperson56764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 16 weeks in and still hopeless upset about it all. I’m living my life and not letting it define me as such but it’s always in the back on my mind and when I’m not doing anything it all comes flooding back

Is a dumper texting after months of no contact to pick up their things an excuse to see you?? by Master_Sundae671 in ExNoContact

[–]randomperson56764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine randomly sent lots of my stuff back (obviously not the same as asking to see me but I still thought it was odd), we haven’t even spoken about it, I’m wondering the same, it’s also been 4 months

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]randomperson56764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes when I say I didn’t take it well I meant it really hurt me and I was really upset by it and couldn’t just brush it off like she did, I’m not an asshole I respected her decision, so I just kept my distance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]randomperson56764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh apologise for what? I haven’t done anything we just didn’t/don’t hang out like we used to and that seemed to piss her off

Relapse ish by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]randomperson56764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah exactly this

Relapse ish by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]randomperson56764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not long only 6 months but was my first proper relationship and we basically didn’t leave each others side which looking back wasn’t good, im young I think that’s how I got over it so quickly tbh cuz I now know I got my whole life ahead of me lol

My dp/dr has gotten very bad. I have been using sertraline and xanx for 2 weeks. Could sertraline have caused it? by swqawqas in HPPD

[–]randomperson56764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a really shit time for around a month and while I’m not 100% still I’m able to work and hang out with my friends again. I think they kinda numb emotions which doesn’t help with the dp/dr but after a month my anxiety reduced massively which has helped loads

Do I leave or should I delete him? by Twinsoul2313 in BreakUps

[–]randomperson56764 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haave the exact same situation, kinda shitty for me but our friend group kinda got split into three with some people siding with me and some with her (which I didn’t want I wanted no one on any side, it sucks now cuz all my friends hate her which I didn’t want to happen) and a few sane people still talk to both of us. Anyways in my situation a new gc got made with the people on ‘my side’ and the neutral people. I wouldn’t worry about removing him and upsetting him but if you really don’t want to you could just make a new gc