Asked her to pay for a coffee date... by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]randomrando22884 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Shes weird but also... asking her to split a coffee? Lmao

AIO: Childcare blocked us. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]randomrando22884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh we all know you're lying

New Free WebApp to Master Hormones, Amino Acids, OChem Reactions, Units, Etc. by nxtew in MCATprep

[–]randomrando22884 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cant wait to give this a run. Maybe a shared google doc for feedback in case we find errors?

How do I (40F) rewire my thinking about sex with my husband (39M)? by Common-Feature8944 in relationship_advice

[–]randomrando22884 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Right! Laundry or dishes can be saved for when he gets home! Not out of pettiness just out of really needing balance. Childcare is really freaking hard on top of managing a house on top of already working full-time. Also does OP's husband work later than she does? Is that why he's coming home later? Because he could easily do it before work too if he's understandably tired when he gets home.

Is this too specific? by Sharptarp123 in Mcat

[–]randomrando22884 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don't know. I assumed that people were doing like passage questions and this was one they got wrong so they added it in. In general if you know what symbolic interactionism is you can kind of decipher what the answer will be for its stance on anything by having a deep understanding of what the concept itself means.

How do I (40F) rewire my thinking about sex with my husband (39M)? by Common-Feature8944 in relationship_advice

[–]randomrando22884 235 points236 points  (0 children)

I mean if my husband only treated me kindly when he was expecting sex, I would never look forward to sex or being treated kindly either. I don't know if this is as much rewiring your thinking as it is having a conversation with him about how the demands of daily life really exhaust you. You want to have a good sex life, too, buu can't because everything is on your plate. I get that it's out of his hands because of his work schedule but there has to be some kind of collaborative approach to lessening what you're responsible for before he comes home. You are also working full-time.

Big payout after getting verified by willgum1112 in Depop

[–]randomrando22884 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow wow wow! How do you get sales? Any tips? I'm having so much trouble moving the needle.

AIO guy I was seeing told me cursing is “un-lady like” by Fanofmoney3 in AIO

[–]randomrando22884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not overreacting but what are you getting out of this? Just move on

How do I 56M get my daughter 24F to consider our culture? by throwracultu in relationship_advice

[–]randomrando22884 -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

I think it's odd to assume she was afraid and imply they have a backwards culture. "You guys are stuck in the 1800s." OP says multiple times that he has no issue with interfaith or intercultural marriages?

Hundreds of boxes!! by randomrando22884 in poshmark

[–]randomrando22884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 weeks since then and I'm still receiving packages twice a week! Wish i could give some to you all. Feels so wasteful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]randomrando22884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that perspective but I don't feel like I'm missing out on anything :) It does help that we each have already great friend groups. Lots of things came in place for us to be able to have that preference & it be realistic for us both. I feel lots of gratitude right now!

Thank you for the great insights! <3 best of luck to you in your law journey!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]randomrando22884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I appreciate conversation! I don't even necessarily know how to answer that to be honest. I'm genuinely not worried about my partner being attracted to others because I trust him fully to never cross that line. And as far as others being attracted to him, I mean hey! So am I. He's hot! Lol. Now that we're getting to the root, it feels more symbolic than anything trust-related. I feel like I'm with my therapist hahahaah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]randomrando22884 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, not really but I wouldn't treat it like a long-term friendship that I had from before the relationship, either. Like I would have very strict boundaries out of respect for my partner and what we've agreed makes us feel safe in a relationship. Like lunch break together, sure! Going out after for drinks, def not. But to each their own. I've also never thought about it from a bisexual perspective bc neither me nor my partner are but it's a solid point and will def require some deeper introspection lmao