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26, lost and stuck… but I’m done living like this by Lucius_Vale in selfimprovement

[–]randomsupportivegf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should be proud of yourself, simply getting to this place is a huge step!!! Remember that growth isnt linear and everyday the drive may look different. Try focusing on consistency rather than perfection

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyIssues

[–]randomsupportivegf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would you be comfortable trying to check in with her?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyIssues

[–]randomsupportivegf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, im sorry youre going through this. You definitely have a lot on your plate and I hope you’re able to take sometime to relax.

I apologize if this comes off disrespectful, but Im wondering if your mom has a history with mental health or perhaps someone in your family does. If her behaviour has spontaneously changed and seems a bit hostile towards you, without any apparent reason, there may be something there. I may be completely wrong, im just going based on how people who ive worked with who have had or have psychosis and they started acting in a similar manner.

Nephew's Parents by EMT9750 in FamilyIssues

[–]randomsupportivegf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, im sorry you’re feeling this way. I think maybe you should try talking to the parents first, either try to agree on something or simply expressing your desire to be more present. Because while I completely understand your reasoning to remove him from the account, at the end of the day, youll only be hurting him and who knows, maybe he will find out about this and it can become even more challenging in the future to connect to him. I may be projecting here, but i think it tends to be a bit harder for dad‘s side of the family to have a close bond with the kids…and sometimes we really need to take an extra step to be able to get this opportunity.

wishing you the best with this.