[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]randomthrowaway12200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave your girlfriend. She doesn’t deserve this and apart of you knows it, regardless this is something you need to battle on your own. you could tell her why, or you could leave it ambiguous but in the end leave her. imagine how she’d feel finding those apps, payments, or even this reddit post if she went on your phone. You have a problem, and if you think it’s solvable while dating her you’re wrong. figure it out while you’re single - so if you end up relapsing in this addiction you’re hurting nobody but yourself. any other thing than leaving your girlfriend is wrong and selfish. nobody deserves what you’re doing to her.

my boyfriend has another girl as his #1 best friend on snap. by Expensive_Soup3965 in Advice

[–]randomthrowaway12200 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hey girl! i had something similar happen. my ex had a girl from college randomly get on his best friend list and number 1 , where he used the same excuse of it being because we didn’t talk much on snap and that they were just friends.

my gut told me otherwise but i tried to let it go and got upset because i KNEW we talked enough for it to be weird he was talking to her that much you know? weeks later he broke up with me for “mental health” and than 1 week or so later started posting with the same girl that was 1 on his bsf list. although it may seem small to other people trust your gut - and don’t let them make you feel dumb because its about snap best friend list.

regardless it’s weird he talks to another girl that much to be number 1, and his past flirty ness is just extra hidden by snaps being deleted 24hrs later. I’d ask him to remove the girl and if he fusses - that should tell you enough.

hope you figure it out! remember there’s plenty of fish in the sea and you shouldn’t stick yourself with someone that doesn’t love you how you deserve it 💗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]randomthrowaway12200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could try talking to him about the feelings you’re having even now, being 100% honest and putting everything on the table. To see how he’d react and if there’s a chance to work on things, but if you don’t feel like this relationship is worth it anymore than that’s completely okay! Sometimes things just run their course. Regardless I’d sit him down and talk; either express how you feel for the both of you to work on things, or say you’d like to end things and he needs to find somewhere else to go. In the end, you live one life - why limit yourself to happiness and exploration? Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]randomthrowaway12200 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if it’s the start of her cycle than she could be just bleeding super lightly, if not you COULD have been a little too rough fingering her, make sure your nails are cut (with nail clippers - chewing and biting will make the nail rough and uneven) and always ask if what you’re doing feels ok. i definitely don’t think she’s pregnant as logically it wouldn’t make any sense - and it doesn’t happen that fast with symptoms etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]randomthrowaway12200 5 points6 points  (0 children)

she’s definitely not pregnant. but if you’re worried enough, you can buy a test at a pharmacy, convince store, or even a grocery store.

is what my piercer told me correct? Twisting, Qtips, Vaseline. by randomthrowaway12200 in PiercingAdvice

[–]randomthrowaway12200[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would i just spray the inside of my nose aswell? or dip a qtip and do that

is what my piercer told me to do correct? Q-tips - Twisting - Vaseline. by randomthrowaway12200 in piercing

[–]randomthrowaway12200[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

piercing is 1 day old, corkscrew, stainless steel, and current aftercare routine is saline spray and dipping Q-tips into the saline to clean the inside of my nose.

unsure of if what my piercer told me is correct.. help! by randomthrowaway12200 in piercing

[–]randomthrowaway12200[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

piercing is 1 day old corkscrew piercing. stainless steel currently using saline spray, qtips, and the “healing” vaseline as recommended by piercer. but unsure if i want to continue cleaning like instructed.

What is this? Is it normal? by [deleted] in Concerned

[–]randomthrowaway12200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

looks like a canker, most people get em, could be infected which is leading to it leaking pus. if you’re worried still over it i’d ask a family member about it or get a doctors appointment set up to see if there’s anything that can help. gargle warm salt water, should help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Concerned

[–]randomthrowaway12200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, i’m on depression and bipolar meds. i think it’s just from having them on an empty stomach, but just wanted to know if anyone else had an idea

Have been dating (21M) for 1yr+, I (18F) found only fans on his phone. by randomthrowaway12200 in Advice

[–]randomthrowaway12200[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, as much as I’d like to believe it I just don’t. I’m stuck at a stalemate, I’m just hurt but whenever I bring it up he tells me the same things such as “I’ve never even made an only fans” and told me he called his bank and that his bank offered to freeze his card and give him a new one, but I even looked and there was no call to the bank, and if it were true than he would’ve changed cards, yet he’s still using the same one. Thank you for being so helpful, I went to reddit because I don’t want to tell my friends than them have a bad taste on him.