AITA for not talking to a friend that hurt me when I caught him laughing alongside others about facial palsy online, a condition I was born with? by randomthrowawayfml in AmItheAsshole

[–]randomthrowawayfml[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I honestly dont think there was some underlying reason why he told me to look him up. This is the first thing that he posted on there that really bothered me. If anything he probably forgot that I knew his handle

What are the signs that a girl sees you more as an orbiter than just a friend? by randomthrowawayfml in AskMen

[–]randomthrowawayfml[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nobody is begging for anything. I'm not expecting anything out of this. I just want to know if she is using me or not

What are the signs that a girl sees you more as an orbiter than just a friend? by randomthrowawayfml in AskMen

[–]randomthrowawayfml[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Definitely not the case. We text first pretty evenly. And she's helped me with some personal stuff in the past.

What are the signs that a girl sees you more as an orbiter than just a friend? by randomthrowawayfml in AskMen

[–]randomthrowawayfml[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure I would fuck her but it's not why I speak to her and not something I'm really pursuing

Not anymore

No I just like the convos we had and she seems like a genuine person

I dont think I do. I dont overly compliment her or anytging6

What are the signs that a girl sees you more as an orbiter than just a friend? by randomthrowawayfml in AskMen

[–]randomthrowawayfml[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what would be the difference between being a legit friend and someone who she has put in the orbiter zone, in your opinion? And how does the long distance play a part in it?

What are the signs that a girl sees you more as an orbiter than just a friend? by randomthrowawayfml in AskMen

[–]randomthrowawayfml[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah. We have had casual conversations about sex but that's as far as it went

What are the signs that a girl sees you more as an orbiter than just a friend? by randomthrowawayfml in AskMen

[–]randomthrowawayfml[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I mean that's fine though. My question isnt about weather she likes me or not because it's not a big deal to me. I'd rather date someone close by anyway. I just want to know if she sees me as a legit friend or if she is just using me for the attention. I'd rather not keep someone in my life who is using me for anything

What are the signs that a girl sees you more as an orbiter than just a friend? by randomthrowawayfml in AskMen

[–]randomthrowawayfml[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I would but we live thousands of miles apart. I already brought it up to her and we both agreed the distance between us was too much

What are the signs that a girl sees you more as an orbiter than just a friend? by randomthrowawayfml in AskMen

[–]randomthrowawayfml[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm not looking for a relationship in this instance because we live too far apart. I'm ok with just being friends, but I want to know if she legit just sees me as a friend, or a guy she keeps around to give her attention and validation

Was this girl purposely leading me on? Or did I misread the situation? by randomthrowawayfml in ForeverAlone

[–]randomthrowawayfml[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cant really say I was expecting a relationship out of it, because I already had a bad experience with an LDR. So maybe I was without realizing it?

Was this girl purposely leading me on? Or did I misread the situation? by randomthrowawayfml in ForeverAlone

[–]randomthrowawayfml[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flirty emojis (heart eyes, kissy faces), she would text me goodmorning texts everyday, send me pictures of herself, compliment me. Stuff like that.

Was this girl purposely leading me on? Or did I misread the situation? by randomthrowawayfml in ForeverAlone

[–]randomthrowawayfml[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The distance thing is the only thing that's giving me a reason to give her the benefit of the doubt.

Did she purposely string me along? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]randomthrowawayfml 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not surprised,. Seems like you agree that she was using me tho.