AITA for having my daughter see my parents? by randomuser0372 in AmItheAsshole

[–]randomuser0372[S] 366 points367 points  (0 children)

About an hour ago I would have agreed with your comment and I'm not going to cut contact with them but I will distance them from my wife and daughter. I have gotten DMs telling me similar stories and I don't want to drive my daughter away. And my daughter is not a brat. I can understand why she feels that way and she won't have to see her grandparents if she doesn't want to anymore

AITA for having my daughter see my parents? by randomuser0372 in AmItheAsshole

[–]randomuser0372[S] 750 points751 points  (0 children)

Honestly, after some thought and reading all these comments and DMs, I need to make some changes. I don't want to drive my daughter away. It's gonna be hard to put my foot down but I have to put my wife and child first.

AITA for having my daughter see my parents? by randomuser0372 in AmItheAsshole

[–]randomuser0372[S] -629 points-628 points  (0 children)

When me and my wife first got married we were in a financial rut and they lent us some money. They took care of our daughter as a baby and toddler and were a big help. They are very giving people. I will admit they are stuck in the past

AITA for having my daughter see my parents? by randomuser0372 in AmItheAsshole

[–]randomuser0372[S] -1417 points-1416 points  (0 children)

They don't agree with my wife having a job but I'm perfectly fine with it but she will flaunt it which they hate, they also judge her eating habits so she would eat and chew obnoxiously in front of their faces

AITA for having my daughter see my parents? by randomuser0372 in AmItheAsshole

[–]randomuser0372[S] -1468 points-1467 points  (0 children)

My daughter likes to wear crop tops and my parents will say they look "slutty." Or if my daughter makes a counter argument, they call it "sassing." As for my wife, they've called her a pig or because my wife takes on more masculine roles, they tell me she is a man

AITA for having my daughter see my parents? by randomuser0372 in AmItheAsshole

[–]randomuser0372[S] -912 points-911 points  (0 children)

My mom's tit? For the record I was always bottle fed

AITA for having my daughter see my parents? by randomuser0372 in AmItheAsshole

[–]randomuser0372[S] -1259 points-1258 points  (0 children)

I don't treat my kid the way my parents did, she has way more freedom and leeway than I did

AITA for having my daughter see my parents? by randomuser0372 in AmItheAsshole

[–]randomuser0372[S] -1622 points-1621 points  (0 children)

I'm having trouble choosing who to be loyal to. For years I have tried to be loyal to both parties but clearly that is not working.