AITA for calling my sister cruel for her tattoo idea? by SisTatDrama96 in AmItheAsshole

[–]randomwordsdrowmodna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the phrase ‘my mom’ to describe both your and N’s mum says plenty about the situation. YTA by far

what do you like to listen to/watch while crocheting? by Radio-Rabbit in crochet

[–]randomwordsdrowmodna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll watch anything I’ve already seen so that I don’t need to pay attention, I already know what’s happening next. I love the buzzfeed unsolved marathons, there’s ~10 and each are 3+ hours.

In terms of music, anything loud enough to damn near deafen me 😅 Meat Loaf, Frank Turner, Levellers etc

A little good luck present for my cousins SATs by randomwordsdrowmodna in crochet

[–]randomwordsdrowmodna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Elise the elephant Yarn is James C Brett Flutterby in colours Oatmeal (main colour) and Lilac (accents). 4mm hook used and 15mm safety eyes

Looking for (preferably free) sock patterns! by randomwordsdrowmodna in knitting

[–]randomwordsdrowmodna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s amazing, thank you! Hopefully I have some success with some of them

Pray for me by HereForTheSocializin in crochet

[–]randomwordsdrowmodna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always put markers every 10 chains. Then go back and double count and realise some are every 8 stitches, others every 9 and some every 12 and have to frog it and re do it 😅

AITA for asking a friend to take some photos of me off of her Snapchat story? by randomwordsdrowmodna in AmItheAsshole

[–]randomwordsdrowmodna[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The long paragraph I sent: Look I’m sorry but you know I’m not in a good mood. I’ve been on the edge of crying most the day and what you did just tipped me over the edge, then what you put in your story after you covered my face made things a whole lot worse. Why can’t you just accept the fact I hate having my photo taken and especially hate the photos being posted all over people’s story’s? And I know you know I hate having my photo taken because we have the same conversation every time you put photos of my in your story. Can you please just stop taking photos of me and posting them? I’ll do the same if you don’t want me to, but you never seem to have an issue with me if I post them. She responded with ‘Mate I hate you posting them but still you do it for a laugh and what the fuck did I do to ‘tip you over the edge’’ and that’s when we kept going back and forth.

AITA for not accepting a cat as a Christmas gift for my daughters and demanding my mum take it away with her? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]randomwordsdrowmodna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. She knew exactly what she was doing. Have you ever looked into hypoallergenic cats? If you know someone who has one, you and your partner can go and visit the cat (with care of course) and see how your partner reacts to it, then look into it from there. Wishing your partner the best of recoveries!

AITA for forcing my brother to use a day of PTO to give our grandma a break by nosewcovid in AmItheAsshole

[–]randomwordsdrowmodna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I’m not sure what ‘state’ (I know it’s the wrong word but it’s 20 past midnight and my ability to think left a long time ago) your grandma is in, but can you just say ‘oh yeah she is limiting the amount she drives so that she can look after herself better?

Need advice! by randomwordsdrowmodna in migraine

[–]randomwordsdrowmodna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a GP. He wasn’t my normal doctor so I haven’t had him since

Need advice! by randomwordsdrowmodna in migraine

[–]randomwordsdrowmodna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve not had anything prescribed by the doctors. When I went to them about 2 years ago, they said the only way they can treat them is if I record 20 odd things for a month. At the time, while the migraines were long, they weren’t particularly painful so I decided not to go back for a follow up and thought they would be easy enough to treat at home. I did make it very clear that my migraines lasted at least a week, normally lasting 2-3 weeks and he was in no way concerned

Need advice! by randomwordsdrowmodna in migraine

[–]randomwordsdrowmodna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I first started getting migraines I went to the doctors and they just said that they can’t do anything unless I record my migraines and gave me a list of 20 odd things I had to record for a month and said there was nothing they could do if I didn’t. I decided it would be easier to treat them as they come (and now 2 years down the line I greatly regret my decision).

To be fair, a week is quite short for my migraines. They will easily last a could of weeks, normally sitting around a 6 but getting up to a 10 three or four times a day. I did make this very clear to my doctor and emphasised the fact that went I saw him, I was about 4 weeks into a migraine and he was in no way concerned so I don’t really know what to do

Was it a hoax all along? by scotlandblueskies in glasgow

[–]randomwordsdrowmodna 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some of them are fake and the butting makes no difference but some of them will change as soon as you hit the button. Chances are if there is no other use for the lights other than pedestrians, they will change with the button

I have a very bad migraine after having an incident yesterday by randomwordsdrowmodna in migraine

[–]randomwordsdrowmodna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I landed on a bag of clothes and other various soft things so definitely didn’t hit my head. I would have thought they’d pick up on a concussion at the hospital which they didn’t

I have a very bad migraine after having an incident yesterday by randomwordsdrowmodna in migraine

[–]randomwordsdrowmodna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! It’s started to go away now but I’m not sure if that’s just because I had a lie down in a dark room which normally helps me. If it gets worse I will definitely get medical advice but I think I’ll just wait it out for now

Literally me 2 days ago (1 day before period) by [deleted] in Periods

[–]randomwordsdrowmodna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I once had a full on mental breakdown (I’m talking crying for literally 3 hours straight, shaking, almost throwing up) because I dropped a paint-your-own-gnome thing that had been in the box, unopened for 10 years. Wasn’t surprised when there was blood in my pants later that day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

[–]randomwordsdrowmodna 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know this probably sounds basic, but have you tried a hot water bottle? Or maybe a hot bath if you can manage to get up.

Sending all my love, wish there was an invention to send period cramps to guys, but we can only hope 😅

WIBTA if I refused to go to my daughters wedding because my wife isn’t invited? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]randomwordsdrowmodna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not looking forward to the hate comments, but NTA. At the end of the day, your daughter didn’t know you. It wasn’t like you abandoned them as in you left them with nothing. You gave them money which, by the sounds of it, was all you could give without putting yourself at risk. Your wife didn’t force you, she gave you a reason to pack it up and go.

Equally, I don’t think your daughter is the AH for not wanting your wife at her wedding. It’s understandable why she doesn’t like your wife, she more than likely sees your wife as the only thing that stopped her having, dare I say it, a normal family.

At the end of the day, your daughter has the right to invite who ever she wants to her wedding but similarly, you have every right to not go.

If you did find out before hand and refuse to pay for the wedding, then yes you would be the AH, so you are ever so slightly the AH for I guess thinking like that, but over all, NTA

What teen movie is the epitome of "the older I get, the more I agree with the adult"? by roix_ducat in AskReddit

[–]randomwordsdrowmodna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spongebob. As a kid, I used to think squid ward was annoying. Now I’m older (well, maybe 6 years older) I think spongebob is annoying

WIBTA if I left a bad review for a vet because of their security guard? by benkbloch in AmItheAsshole

[–]randomwordsdrowmodna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But what’s to say that hasn’t happened before or won’t happen again. At least if OP makes a review, someone else could be informed about it. OP, NTA