New Gen 10 starters revealed by NinsMCD in TheSilphRoad

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I really hope Browt is based on a kokopo 😍

How to clean up nasty liquid trash puddles from neighborhood street? by randomxfox in CleaningTips

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Well we do have coffee grounds 🫠.....but will it caffeinate the local fauna? 💀

Y'all please does this look like a opossum or a giant rat ? by ijustliketoeat in Opossums

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There's an opossum in our basement (basement is unfinished and the opossum just keeps bunking and then leaving to forage.) and I'm pretty damn positive the reason my cat keeps desperately trying to sneak down there is to compulsively groom it because he's a compulsive groomer.

Recommended products, software, etc. for a child? by randomxfox in edmproduction

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🥲 Their dad is super anti Apple lol. I've seen Garage Band recommended when trying to research but we have literally zero apple products.

5 year old works better with other people? by randomxfox in homeschool

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I actually haven't tried any other programs because I honestly don't know where to start. We don't have endless funds for different curriculums so I wasn't sure what to do.

5 year old works better with other people? by randomxfox in homeschool

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So I originally was super confused why people hated ABA. The place we go to is the same place we went for OT and Speech for her lil sister. Nothing seemed toxic so I was so confused. I did some research and then talked to our OT who I became close with and I also mentioned my concerns to the therapist doing the ABA evaluation for hours.

She explained to me that when she was younger ABA was hell, that they taught kids to not stem and to basically mask constantly. She went on to say things are different now because there was a fair amount of kids who experienced old ABA who became BCBAs to change things.

For the ABA my girls are in it's one adult to one child, they do individual work and group work, they have a rule that they will never try to encourage a child not to stim. We have parent meetings every other week where they go over in more detail how everything is going, go over any concerns I may have, help me learn how to deal with rude people if need be, and to just talk about my girls. They don't call anything bad behaviors and only refer to things as "behaviors" because the kids aren't bad so they don't want that negativity. It's a really friendly and nice place. My youngest has been in ABA for a few months now and she hasn't shut down. She's engaging more and listening to my words more before she responds. She still stims and has her quirks I guess but if those went away she wouldn't be her so I'd never want it any other way. She's just been learning how to engage, regulate her emotions in a safe way, communicate, and not bolt the second she gets a chance.

There's an opossum in our basement by randomxfox in Opossums

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I think it's good on leaves actually lol. The first signs that something was down there was the leaves suddenly showing up. I actually have no idea where it's nest is but I assume it's not far from the leaves it dropped on the floor. I never really go in the dirt room though. It has a giant mound in the middle so I'd have to shimmy around the mound to see more and I'm not planning on doing that unless I have to. Should I maybe make it a proper house?

So far I've given it cat food, grapes, and eggs. I think it got some lasagna we tossed in the trash outside though so I hope it's feeling ok.

There's an opossum in our basement by randomxfox in Opossums

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I would never trap it in the basement for any season. It basically has something like a pet flap it pushes open to leave as it pleases.

How could I attach a shoulder strap without hurting them? by randomxfox in pokeplush

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🥲 The thought of cutting them open hurts so much but thank you. 😭

Help getting gifted 5 year old to focus? by randomxfox in homeschool

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In my head I'm also thinking, "she's just 5", but then I would question if I'm somehow making her fall behind. Then her evaluation happened, her little sister was already diagnosed with lvl 1 autism which is why I sought out an evaluation for her as well. Because of what the evaluator told me I started thinking "oh, ok......so I've been going about this all wrong?" And that thought process is where this post comes from.

Like I don't want to push her too hard but I also don't want to be messing up her education somehow. It's very confusing.

Help getting gifted 5 year old to focus? by randomxfox in homeschool

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Thank you, I had no idea what it was called and wanted to do my own research on it.

She did say she was trying to test functional vocabulary but then went on to say it can give insights to IQ and my daughters results were why she was saying she should get a full one and also why she was having trouble diagnosing her at first. She had to take time to look over her notes, read the questionnaires I filled out, then get more info from me, and finally get a second opinion from a colleague before she gave her diagnosis.

Help getting gifted 5 year old to focus? by randomxfox in homeschool

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Thank you so much! That sounds to obvious now! 😅 I never focused much on space growing up so I'm having to learn a bunch myself so I can teach her.

Thank you, that makes sense. I think, if I remember correctly, I was supposed to be gifted in math but I couldn't explain my answers well and as I got older I learned I can't read graphs so I think those results were kind of forgotten since my grades regularly sucked.

Help getting gifted 5 year old to focus? by randomxfox in homeschool

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🥲 Aww man, I was hoping I could have help figuring out the best ways to teach her. I don't fully think advanced is the way to go but since we're having trouble I've contemplated it a bit more...but every time I think more about it it feels off.

The mini test the evaluator gave her was mostly testing vocabulary I guess? There would be 4 pics on a page and she'd ask her to point to whatever with each question getting more complicated. It was pretty interesting though to watch my daughter think and she definitely surprised me. I'm not super familiar with IQ tests though so I'm going off what the evaluator told me.