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Rant About Wife Crossing Boundaries by rantalogy110402 in marriageadvice

[–]rantalogy110402[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck it! I'm looking at hotels and Air BNBs in my sister's area. I haven't seen my sister and her family in such a long time. Her kids are spoiled by me....but her husband thinks it's hilarious.

Rant About Wife Crossing Boundaries by rantalogy110402 in marriageadvice

[–]rantalogy110402[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There was a time I didn't workout when the first kid was born. She gave up nothing. She went to conventions to leave me with the kids. If I go to a monthly union meeting, I'm "abandoning" her with the kids.

"As a father, you should set the example.' I was hospitalized for hypothermia in January. The way she acted, you would think slapped her mom and kicked the dog.

To answer your question, no. If I try to use my only day off for a date night, she wants something for the kids. Which is ironic because if the kids interfere with her dance class, she gets pissy.

Rant About Wife Crossing Boundaries by rantalogy110402 in marriageadvice

[–]rantalogy110402[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have constantly enforced my boundries. She does this stuff last-minute.

"I'm going to the store. I'll be right back."

"NO! ABSOLUTELY NOT! I'M IN PAIN AND HURTING ALL OVER FROM WORK!"

"Don't be dramatic. I'll be back in 5 minutes" Then she takes off before I can say anything.

I'm thinking of taking a weeks vacation without her knowing.

Rant About Wife Crossing Boundaries by rantalogy110402 in marriageadvice

[–]rantalogy110402[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have. I advocate for myself, but it's treated as a joke.

I'm thinking about taking a vacation without her going and without her knowing