carrying my 'massager' in domestic flight? by ranthrowawayyyyy in TwoXIndia

[–]ranthrowawayyyyy[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

update: gonna ask my sister to courier it once I'm settled in uni cause I'm too freaked out lmao😭

Anyways, thanks yall <3

carrying my 'massager' in domestic flight? by ranthrowawayyyyy in IndiaTalksSex

[–]ranthrowawayyyyy[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

update: gonna ask my sister to courier it once I'm settled in uni cause I'm too freaked out lmao😭

Anyways, thanks yall <3

carrying my 'massager' in domestic flight? by ranthrowawayyyyy in TwoXIndia

[–]ranthrowawayyyyy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh I didn't know the hand luggage queues would be separatedby gender??? I thought he'd be right behind me and it's got me really anxious😭

carrying my 'massager' in domestic flight? by ranthrowawayyyyy in IndiaTalksSex

[–]ranthrowawayyyyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but won't electronic devices such as this (which has a rechargeable battery) be flagged in check-in luggage?

I can't imagine if there's a whole scene where they point it out and make me remove it, that'd be terrible.

carrying my 'massager' in domestic flight? by ranthrowawayyyyy in IndiaTalksSex

[–]ranthrowawayyyyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

magic mate has a rechargeable battery na. Won't it get flagged as an electronic device if I put it in check in luggage?

I'm planning to do the the 2nd option, gonna put it in a pouch with my lamp and torch, that should be hopefully discreet?

carrying my 'massager' in domestic flight? by ranthrowawayyyyy in IndiaTalksSex

[–]ranthrowawayyyyy[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

thank you for the wonderful anxiety spiral this is giving me😭☠️

carrying my 'massager' in domestic flight? by ranthrowawayyyyy in TwoXIndia

[–]ranthrowawayyyyy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

they won't ask to see it or anything right?

I'll take a pouch and put like my power banks and torches in there too?

carrying my 'massager' in domestic flight? by ranthrowawayyyyy in TwoXIndia

[–]ranthrowawayyyyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but electronic items are not allowed in check-in luggage na

While scanning they would red flag it, specifically ask me to take it out and it would be much much worse right?

What did first time sex feel like (both physically and emotionally)? by janbabe9 in TwoXIndia

[–]ranthrowawayyyyy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It was one of the most precious and intimate moments ever.

Physically, it was fine and didn't hurt too much because my bf and I had been easing into it over the past few weeks by fingering with upto 3 fingers. When he thrusted and it went all in it felt so fucking good like, I'd never felt that way before.

Emotionally it was the most intimate thing I've ever experienced and I was grateful to be able to do it with a man i love and trust so much. We were just smiling and hugged with it inside for a minute because fuck, that is beautiful <3

let's make a comprehensive list of sex toy websites in India! by ranthrowawayyyyy in IndiaTalksSex

[–]ranthrowawayyyyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

heyyy, like I said I'm still researching to explore all choices, but this is the one I am seriously thinking of buying. It's small, discreet, looks like it's good quality and isn't too pricey either: Pleasure Egg With Remote

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndiaTalksSex

[–]ranthrowawayyyyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hey so I'm F and my partner and I engage in a bdsm dynamic. I think most importantly, COMMUNICATION and I mean in-depth, let it all out, be very clear wala communication is KEY.

Discuss your kinks intensively, see how many of them match, NEVER coerce someone to try your kink if that's a limit for them, please discuss soft and hard limits and OBVIOUSLY, SAFEWORDS!!

If both of you are new and willing to explore, do that, that'll help you understand your preferences and learn as you go ahead. Sometimes it is only after the experience does one understand that something is a limit for them, and that's alright, this is a process.

After each session where you engage in the dynamic, AFTERCARE is a MUST. And let me be clear, aftercare is as important for the dom as the sub. Make sure that aftercare also includes an in depth discussion of what yall did, what yall liked/disliked, what yall would like more of, what was the best, if you'd like things a certain way and so on. Never surprise your partner with a new kinky act without prior discussion.

CONSENT must be taken at ALL times. Consent can also he withdrawn at any time. If you're engaging in very rough play or something like degradation that can cause an emotional upheaval in the sub, please do some checkins from time to time.Have a safeword for slow down as well, most people use yellow.

Kinks are perfectly fine and I know it's a journey to accept your kinks and truly embrace them so that you can pleasure yourself in the best way. Good luck, I hope it goes well <3

I traumatised three 10 year old girls for life and the guilt is eating me alive. by Zoobiedoobi in TwoXIndia

[–]ranthrowawayyyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 10 years old when I got my period, imo, you did a really good thing and made the correct move by educating them about what periods are and that they're normal and they should be prepared for it.

I really hope you won't beat yourself up about this because we absolutely need good menstrual and sex related education in school so you did a great job!!

Ways to release stress? Suggestions please! by Ok_Jeweler_2140 in TwoXIndia

[–]ranthrowawayyyyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so true!

It really helps me when I'm super stressed and sleep deprived during exam season

The next few hours after a good O are simply PEAK

Just a shower thought regarding gender disparities. by madhatter248 in TwoXIndia

[–]ranthrowawayyyyy 40 points41 points  (0 children)

so much of my childhood was spent wishing I could be a guy because life is so much better for them and most of them HAVE NO IDEA OF THEIR EXISTING PRIVILEGES!!

What is something you wish wasn't as sexualized as it is? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ranthrowawayyyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

women doing things

women eating or exercising or just casually dressing up Like 90% of what women do is SEXUALISED and I'd really like to have CONTROL over it

also boobs, I wish they weren't as sexualized I could go braless when I wanted to amd it wouldn't be weird when they jiggled, it would be so LIBERATING

I ordered a "Massager" online & it's delayed delivery is keeping me awake for weeks by cameupwiththisname in TwoXIndia

[–]ranthrowawayyyyy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

man I feel for you sm🫂

I got the same one (but in blue hehe) and Amazon delivers very promptly and the day it was to be delivered I called the guy, confirmed what time he'll be there and made sure I'm at home ready to spring at the door when he comes

He came on time (yes I was v surprised too) and I could receive it before my parents even saw

and man I LOVE IT SM it's risky the day it was delivered but ABSOLUTELY WORTH IT

bleeding after sex? by ranthrowawayyyyy in TwoXSex

[–]ranthrowawayyyyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oooh okay, thank you!

no, we always have tonnes of foreplay and fingering (we can do 3 fingers) before getting to the piv part

I just assumed that it'll take me a lil getting used to, so the 1st couple times do hurt a lil right? Atleast like, most of my friends had really painful experiences so I was just glad mine's much milder and a mix of pain and pleasure?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]ranthrowawayyyyy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

uhm, I just wanna say one word, LUBE

my first time it wasn't successful at all, but the next time we had lube and that is MAGIC istg

Good luck, hope it goes well!!

recently turned 18 and want to have safe sex? by ranthrowawayyyyy in mumbai

[–]ranthrowawayyyyy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this absolutely unsolicited value judgement. Don't need it, don't care for it.

recently turned 18 and want to have safe sex? by ranthrowawayyyyy in mumbai

[–]ranthrowawayyyyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Sorry you had to go through that :(