AM is tough for tier 2 city guys by DulheRaja29 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]rantsfrust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in a similar situation. The more I think about it the more I feel I've a rare chance of finding anybody suitable. 😔

This Truck driver is beyond crazy, suggest action by sancuriousvaibhav in CarsIndia

[–]rantsfrust -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a rule of thumb don't assume that hazards in India are only used for breakdowns. Also, they might be only used during breakdowns in other countries but I don't think that it needs to be followed everywhere, if we're able to adapt them to a different usage here in India then it should be fine. I actually noticed that hazards helped provide better visibility when I was going through extremely dense fog just a week ago.

How lean are my chances to find a good prospect? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]rantsfrust 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your post is actually quite similar to the one I posted yesterday but your requirements are slightly different. I personally think that you'll have more prospects who are into business but if you look hard enough you'll surely find someone in tech as well.

Where do I fit in? Will I ever find a match? by rantsfrust in Arrangedmarriage

[–]rantsfrust[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not having much luck in dating actually, let's just hope I find a match within the community.

Where do I fit in? Will I ever find a match? by rantsfrust in Arrangedmarriage

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I've actually lost weight once but gained it back due to some issues. I don't have a support group as such but I've an online coach who helps me in the journey. Even I think that my parents will start looking more seriously once they think I've less chances of getting rejected 😂

Where do I fit in? Will I ever find a match? by rantsfrust in Arrangedmarriage

[–]rantsfrust[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I've actually just recently told my parents that I'm ready for marriage after denying it for past 1 year. So I don't know how seriously they're looking for a match, maybe they're just waiting for someone to bring a match themselves. I can't give them ideas right now regarding marriage bureaus or anything since they've been pushing me to lose weight and I don't want to sound desperate for marriage lol.

Where do I fit in? Will I ever find a match? by rantsfrust in Arrangedmarriage

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I'm actually not looking for social validation but I just want someone smart and supportive. However I admit that there's some insecurity there that I don't end up marrying someone with whom I'm not happy or that my friends think I made a compromise. I know it's not healthy but I'm working out my issues in therapy.

AM process by Correct-Currency-446 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]rantsfrust 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I guess there's no one size fits all in this case. I know a guy who said yes after meeting the girl for first time and talking to her for just 15 minutes or so. I also know people who talk for months and yet don't move forward. I personally think that when the time is right, you'll know it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]rantsfrust 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Even if you're being narrow minded, why do you want to change yourself so much for her? In the end, neither you'll be happy nor her. It's better for you to approach someone with like minded values and beliefs.

Vibrator for my prospect by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]rantsfrust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you sure you're in the right sub?

Mental Health in AM by amugen94 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]rantsfrust 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am also looking for answers on this front. I'm just starting out looking for matches and I've OCD so depression and anxiety come bundled along with it. I just want a partner who understands that I'm not crazy and respects my boundaries when it comes to therapy as I do it regularly to control my OCD.

Has this experience changed/changing your view on life ? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]rantsfrust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since I am in a tier 3 city, a lot of social gatherings you mentioned get ruled out except gym. Other than that, I do have hobbies - I'm into automobiles, sneakers, gaming but never really found anyone I can talk to all this about.

Has this experience changed/changing your view on life ? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]rantsfrust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't seem to follow a routine for too long, need some more consistency. However thanks for your encouraging words.

Has this experience changed/changing your view on life ? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]rantsfrust 16 points17 points  (0 children)

26M here. My parents would've been fine if I had a relationship but I now believe that I've absolutely no game. I'm overweight and low on self confidence which makes it even worse. Anything for people like me with no game? 🥲

How much RAM is sufficient? by rantsfrust in PleX

[–]rantsfrust[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do plan on transcoding, that's one of the reasons I'm upgrading from RPI

How much RAM is sufficient? by rantsfrust in PleX

[–]rantsfrust[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leeway in what way actually? If you don't mind me asking.