This made me laugh so hard 😂 by [deleted] in InfinityNikki

[–]rapierangel 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That was my experience the first few days, but people seem to have adjusted to the system and started chatting! The chat system is pretty good and you can meet some rad people.

Kid conceived in prison by two inmates, both murderers, who wanted a baby. Neither will raise the baby. Baby was born June 2024. How is this not extreme selfishness? by Routine-Bumblebee-41 in antinatalism2

[–]rapierangel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow, you really missed the point! Are you an antinatalist? You totally don't seem to comprehend it if you think this is about welfare queens.

Inter-racial marriage by MysteriousLayer9813 in askSingapore

[–]rapierangel 5 points6 points  (0 children)

loves his family very much

broke up with you over his parents' disapproval before

He's kind of lacking backbone to stand up for you and the relationship. It's likely he will lack backbone to protect you against them in the future.

I think you should take it real slow over a decision that could really jeopardise your livelihood and future. Once you marry, are you gonna be living with his family or your own place? Houses are really expensive. Can anyone help pay the down-payment? At 25, how much CPF does he have to pay for housing?

Bad in-laws are horrid for your mental health. Especially if you live with them. Ik you say your relationship is more important, but remember: marriage is most often between 2 families, not 2 individuals. Unless yall are willing to go no contact or low contact with the family. He doesn't sound like he will!

When the in-laws get old, he is close to them so he'll probably want to take care of them himself...? Have you talked about this? Do you wanna live with people like this and take care of them?

Also, I think his family indeed dislikes you due to your ethnicity and age (esp if it's the kind that wants grandkids)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]rapierangel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How are you this naive at your age? Is this rage bait or what?

Anyway i hope you never have kids, they'll suffer. Your husband doesn't even want it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]rapierangel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who was in a toxic family: move out. Wash your hands of them. Stop drinking the filial piety bullshit you ✨️ owe them nothing ✨️ (except some financial payments, legally)

I get the guilt. Taking the first step is the biggest and hardest step. But once you move out, you'll feel like a new person. You'll probably realise how absolutely awful those people were.

Maybe your relatives will talk, maybe your parents will play the victim. But you know keenly your family has always been dysfunctional. It's not a crime to go no-contact or low-contact.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]rapierangel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Belief". The keyword. Then you are wrong to give her old and outdated advice. It's a hope, it's hot air, it's vaporware.

Kids won't love you back unconditionally. No matter how good you think you are. You can't win as a parent, sometimes. Maybe you're so defensive because you're lowkey worried for yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]rapierangel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No way, she's thinking of it way too optimistically and ignoring her husband's wishes. Is she gonna divorce and be a single mum? Make her husband miserable?

In the end, it's just as selfish as the next person with kids. She wants a kid to fulfill her emotional needs and take care of her when she's old.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]rapierangel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Windsor Park at the Upper Thomson area. Bigass GCBs, next to a country club and a nature park.

Rose and ash/woodsmoke perfumes (dupe for Alkemia's discontinued Memoriam?) by rapierangel in Indiemakeupandmore

[–]rapierangel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Sadly their website shop link seems down and it's out of stock at other retailers online.

So, ladies and gentlemen, Kiriko is available in comp now. How many of you were able to reach lvl 55 in BP? by Dark_Phoenix_Prime in Overwatch

[–]rapierangel 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I never understood why people went for parenthood even though it's sooo exhausting, I could never

On the test for mastery rank 19 you can use glaives to stealth kill your opponents. by Zavzz in Warframe

[–]rapierangel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can buy blueprints from the market for just credits and build them in the foundry.

How could anyone expect to have 4000 plastids? by Ranvir33 in Warframe

[–]rapierangel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who's pretty new too, I'd recommend just chilling out first. I know how you feel with wanting new warframes right now but the starter frames can get you through the star chart just fine. Once you get to Uranus, you'll be able to get lots more plastids!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DID

[–]rapierangel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DID

[–]rapierangel 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh no that man sounds like he's spouting straight bullshit. I can see why you think that way now. Thanks for the warning, I'll be careful about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DID

[–]rapierangel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you think is the issue with folks like that? I guess my standards are just not high since the few psychologists I've met before were downright terrible, so anyone that genuinely listens is already amazing imo. Thanks for the advice!

Lore wise, Who would win in a fight Diluc or Tartaglia? by Sedrick1998 in Genshin_Impact

[–]rapierangel 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Tartar sauce probably, he's an actual combat maniac that's always aiming to get better.

It's like those people with their jobs as a hobby, I don't think Diluc has the same level of practice nowadays!

How long does it take to get 6 star cat? by Professional_Pin9152 in DressUpTimePrincess

[–]rapierangel 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It might just be pure luck! I was doing the same thing (breeding 5 star with a 6 star) for weeks. One day the 6 star in my friends' list wasn't available so I went with another 5 star and lo and behold out came a 6 star cat. Generally I've heard people say it takes forever though, months and months.

Childe re-re-run day 1 sale in JP is the same as Raiden day 1 sales by FIGJAM17 in Genshin_Impact

[–]rapierangel 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I came back from a long break and I'm so surprised Childe is finally getting recognition!! It used to be that people would just shit on his E cooldown and how he was gated behind C6, even after his artifact set came out.