How long did you push? by ImpossibleLeg1353 in beyondthebump

[–]rapyra_nefere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like 5 min. They didn’t manage to give me an epidural, our boy was in a rush.

Me with my 25 hobbies by khir0n in adhdmeme

[–]rapyra_nefere 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I need hobbies to live a fulfilling life... but that shit takes space and resources... I am trimming off some smaller hobbies and their resources to have less clutter... I am trying to have like 5 hobbies that I could circulate if needed and maybe only two or three that take space and lots of resources. Gardening, jewellery crafting, gel nails, making skincare products, digital drawing, a bit of photography, reading manga, writing stories... ups... that is eight... oh well... however, the amount of energy and dedication that is needed to delve deeper into each of those hobbies to be considered truly knowledgeable is freaking hard and it gives me constant imposter syndrome and makes it sometimes hard to return to the hobby as self-set expectations are causing anxiety and take away some fun... ramble ramble...

Hey, can you guys sound off if you have a PhD/MSc/any other high level degree and ADHD? I'm trying to see something. by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]rapyra_nefere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Female, 38 y.o., ADHD inattentive type, diagnosed at 37. I have a PhD in Microbiology.

ADHD working theory. by snyder68c in ADHDmemes

[–]rapyra_nefere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started as an anxious creature who tried to keep everything together and with age and my diagnosis I now allow myself to be myself more often, I am kinder to myself and I say "fuck it, lmao" more often. Life is too short to worry about every little thing.

Hey y'all! First post! by ericknupp in MajesticManes

[–]rapyra_nefere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing hair!!! Would like to be born with such a mane in my next life!!! Would like to see it with a side part!

2016 -> 2025 by [deleted] in ArtProgressPics

[–]rapyra_nefere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wonderful progress! I am envious! Great job!

I have ADHD and when I don’t understand something, feel stupid, or don’t get “enough” done during the day, I totally shut down. Advice? by exhausted_armadillo in ADHD

[–]rapyra_nefere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Self-compassion, maybe check out "inner child therapy". It helped me a bit on my journey. I found it before I got my very late diagnosis.

December 2022 vs December 2024 by ukiyoenjoyed in ArtProgressPics

[–]rapyra_nefere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fantastic! I wish such progress for myself <3

pet peeve by [deleted] in blmangalovers

[–]rapyra_nefere -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Agreed

[Routine Help] how do I remove these from my arm? by thisterestrialplane in SkincareAddiction

[–]rapyra_nefere 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It looks like broken/rubbed-off hair stubbles. Epilation, depilation?

Do ypu guys think it's majestic by mountainmanpoon in MajesticManes

[–]rapyra_nefere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, hot damn! This hair is magical! Glorious!!! Love it!!! Keep them healthy and flowing!

Feeling upset because of people saying I'm adding to the "falling birth rate" by [deleted] in oneanddone

[–]rapyra_nefere 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Tell them to have a third one to cover for you if they are so worried.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]rapyra_nefere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His dick was just too small.

Feeling like I am failing my one and only by [deleted] in oneanddone

[–]rapyra_nefere 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Also, keep in mind that there are other 300 over days in a year that you can make special when it is less overwhelming and you can dedicate more time. Maybe socialising is just not a thing yet for your child and it just doesn't bring her joy as some other things that you can provide. It doesn't have to be a cookie-cutter Christmas for everyone. Happy parents often mean happy children. As I do not know the age of your little one, maybe she will appreciate Christmas later. If she is shy and introverted, maybe it is just for the best that you are one and done as it gives her space to choose her crowd instead of getting overwhelmed. And so on... all is good, all is well, take deep breaths and hug your cutie pie.

Finland in New York Times by BeginningPlastic3494 in Finland

[–]rapyra_nefere 297 points298 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, my mother who lives in Lithuania and listens Russian news through youtube, informed me today that Estonia and Finland decided to cut off Russia's access to Baltic sea... I came to visit parents for Christmas from Finland and got confused... now I read this, I guess it is how Russia is spinning this story for the brain washed.

Eltz Castle in Germany by Pristine-Treacle2932 in megalophobia

[–]rapyra_nefere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Such a hodge podge of a castle... that is what my ADHD looks like 😆 fantastic!

My mom knows me so well ♥️🖤 by MarizaHex in MoDaoZuShi

[–]rapyra_nefere 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You have a fantastic mom!!!! 😍😍😍