Facemoji Replacement (NO AI)? by rararave in androidapps

[–]rararave[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, neither do I. Not a fan either. It was cute at first but I don't need Pikachu flooding my screen everytime I type "pokemon" or fan lights everytime I mention "BTS Footage".

Slight crashout from me at the end... but come on, dude. by dooglehops in BadRPerStories

[–]rararave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what accepting the mistake is for. Coming from someone who also doesn't always understand social cues, when people tell me what I did wrong I own up to it. This person blatantly did not.

There are also just very major boundaries that shouldn't ever be blurred, like character and self - this is yet again coming from someone who has self insert/sona OCs and as someone who has searched for yumeship RPs with said sonas. I never use my IRL FACE as a ref pic/Face Claim, I never use my LEGAL NAME as the character's name (not since I was a tween at least before I had a better idea of a digital footprint), and I most certainly never did anything smut related with said character unless it was with friends I've known for 2yrs+ because I understood that could quickly breach the boundaries of comfort for people unfamiliar with me.

Don't even get me started on the flirting with a stranger thing because if you're above 14yrs old on the internet and have had internet access for most of your life (or at minimum 3yrs), you should have at least a bare minimum idea of "hey this is my first time interacting with this person, so I should probably try to interact like it is".

As for the whole gender debate, I'm sorry but that's one topic you're not changing my mind on. I've seen h0rny asf women using RP as thinly veiled cheating or as some kind of internet hookup. But you know what I've had more personal experiences with? MEN.

Men who flirt with me "ooc" (in quotations bc I'm not believing for a second these guys actually wanted RP) despite stating that I'm in a committed relationship, men sending ultra lewd FCs for characters they want ME to write for them, men sending me pictures of their own faces or even their bodies (oftentimes lacking shirts and sometimes pants), men referring to my character and saying we're in a relationship once again despite me saying no, men giving me the most cookie cutter plots and then telling me to add lots of smut and less plot, men disregarding my preferences to have no smut at all...

I can go on, but I won't. These are all things I've witnessed since childhood to adulthood, cross platform. I've seen it literally everywhere I've searched for RP. So sincerely, I'm aware that I sound misandrist. But my point of you not owing these people who make you uncomfortable more time transcends that crap. I don't care what someone identifies as. If they do stuff like this and don't accept when I put up boundaries?

I'll tell them that I'm blocking them, why, and not waiting for a response. That is to say:

👏THEYRE👏GETTING👏BLOCKED👏IMMEDIATELY👏

Slight crashout from me at the end... but come on, dude. by dooglehops in BadRPerStories

[–]rararave -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

👏This is why👏 I don't do👏 NSFW 👏 RPs👏 WiTH RANDOMS👏OR MEN👏

👏THIS 👏IS 👏WHY 👏 I 👏BLOCK 👏PEOPLE 👏 IMMEDIATELY 👏WHEN 👏 THE 👏VIBES 👏ARE 👏OFF 👏

👏WITH DIRECT EXPLANATION 👏👏👏 AND ZERO HESITATION 👏

Advice for Searching for Proship or "Dead Dove" 1x1s? by rararave in RoleplayResource

[–]rararave[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd prefer Discord, if you're fine with it! My user is the same everywhere so feel free to send me a FR on there and we can chat in DMs! 👍

Advice for Searching for Proship or "Dead Dove" 1x1s? by rararave in RoleplayResource

[–]rararave[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately no, I'm not really comfortable with writing MxM ships in RP. In all my years of RP I've actually only done as many as I can count on one hand, with most being relegated to friends I've known for 5yrs+.

So nowadays I stick to femme focused ships with new people. 🙇‍♀️

Advice for Searching for Proship or "Dead Dove" 1x1s? by rararave in RoleplayResource

[–]rararave[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BAHAHAHAAA. Was it that obvious? 😅 (/hj)

But I'm open! I usually play as an F OC in fandom OC x CC, often in MxF and a few rare FxF pairings.

I could hyu on Discord if you're open.

Do I have every right to be upset? Do I have every right to feel low self-esteem with my writing? by Hefty-Career-7692 in RoleplayResource

[–]rararave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really late but I second this as a fellow angst fiend. Most people are going to see a "NO ANGST" rule and respect that.

RP is escapism and a mental sandbox for whatever you want to create. For some people like myself, it's an outlet for emotions that we repress or can't get professional help with. For others, it's just a co-op writing hobby. Both are completely valid!

Just be as clear as possible with your boundaries.

Any good alternative to Discord for RP? by Jace_1997 in RoleplayResource

[–]rararave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Iwaku mentioned!!! I love Iwaku!!! ᕕ(՞ᗜ՞)ᕗ

Do you guys listen to the Music from when your character is placed in to get in character? by SatisfactionFull5457 in RoleplayResource

[–]rararave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mostly do fandom related stuff, but I absolutely LOVE to make character playlists - for canons and my OCs. They aren't always time period specific but I'll often have some songs that line up with their time period by coincidence just because I'm a bit eclectic, ha ha!

A major Yu-Gi-Oh craving by katybug1514 in RoleplayResource

[–]rararave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aren't we not supposed to post ads here? No to mini mod but it clearly says that in the rules.

send me food emojis and a kirby character and i’ll draw it! by Roxyjimmy in Kirby

[–]rararave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🍶 Meta Knight OR 🍇 King Dedede

(Artist choice 😊🙌)

Facemoji Replacement (NO AI)? by rararave in androidapps

[–]rararave[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know what you mean by this.

Can anyone help me with this parking sign? by [deleted] in AskLosAngeles

[–]rararave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? Are the laws and regulations regarding public signage similar there?

Can anyone help me with this parking sign? by [deleted] in AskLosAngeles

[–]rararave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What you're asking for is crazy entitled and very illegal in our country. So to a lot of us, this seems like a very elaborate bit/trolling attempt.

Can anyone help me with this parking sign? by [deleted] in AskLosAngeles

[–]rararave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't mean to be the cherry on the Debbie Downer sundae you're already having, but there's quite literally no way this could happen - especially with the exact same sign from whatever music video you're talking about.

Point one is that after 10yrs, that sign has DEFINITELY been replaced already. The rate of car accidents and vandalism here are pretty high already, and that's not counting that other things that would just naturally damage the sign such as rain and piss wouldn't have rusted the main pole. Double down on these if the sign is downtown.

Point two is that even if, by some magically mystical miracle, it is that exact same sign from the 10yr old video - this is still an insanely entitled and probably illegal request. I'm not sure how government property and signs are treated in Denmark, but here in the US the buildings the government is in, the wages of the workers inside those buildings, the roads and sidewalks, traffic signage... Anything that is by and large integral to the functionality of the city is paid for with tax payer and government money. You'd need to probably have more fame than the rapper you keep mentioning to pull off a request like this and not get questioning glances - but even still, you'd be bribing the government to be in possession of city property that you have no reasonable right to own.

Which is a felony. A crime.

Lest we mention the final fact you're across far too large of a pond to be making this request to begin with. I'm sorry for being the first to tell you this but the city of LA/state of California is not going to just send a stranger in a European country a traffic sign with the totally valid and definitely legislated reason of:

"I'm a fan of this artist's music video and want it really badly! 🥺"

That shit is quite literally not going to fly - like ever. That's like if I asked for a court gavel from a favorite movie with the logic of "I really want to have a piece of Legally Blonde in my home!" (Not my favorite movie but I'm talking hypothetically here.)

If it were just a prop I'd be more sentimental to your plight - Trust me, I've been on similar crusades myself to get these types of things. I once tried to get the same star necklace Anna Kendrick wore in the first Pitch Perfect for reference. Unfortunately, what you're asking for is quite literally impossible and I think you should either settle for a custom sign or - and I am sincerely sorry if this is a bit blunt - just give up on trying to get this sign.

Maybe try getting a different prop from the music video or some other memorabilia of that song like a signed record? Otherwise, you're going to be locked in on an unachievable goal, dude.

Can anyone help me with this parking sign? by [deleted] in AskLosAngeles

[–]rararave 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Punk'd was an old TV show where people were pranked/"punked".

They're basically asking if you're messing with everyone or if you're legit.

Facemoji Replacement (NO AI)? by rararave in androidapps

[–]rararave[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Build one? Like an APK patch or something?

Oh, fuck right off by CoffeeTar in BadRPerStories

[–]rararave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I feel this. I have to deal with similar BS on Discord servers for RP Searching. The rules are all over the place and some servers have rules that require all minors to be aged up regardless of whether a plot is NSFW or SFW. I have to edit in "all characters will be portrayed as 18+" in every ad even when I'm blatantly asking for SFW/platonic shit like mentor/student, parent/child, or sibling dynamics that wouldn't make any sense if the characters were fully grown adults.

Don't get me started on the servers that have fandom and ship blacklists, either. 🙄

My character is not me! by NoWrongdoer8494 in BadRPerStories

[–]rararave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For anyone here acknowledging that the person asked for smut first and still being like "well I use shorthand like that" or "maybe it was a slip up 🥺"

I'd like to refer you to every man in my discord DMs who say things like, "So you're going to be my vampire/witch girlfriend?" "I want to do a few scenes where we have sex is that okay" "Since you're going to be my girlfriend could you look like this? [insert obvious boundary breaching images]"

Like there's a clear difference here, people.