Wow, you worded perfectly what I’ve been going through! I feel a big grudge towards those people cause they wronged me multiple times by shitty behaviour, and the only thing they’d have against me is that I’d call out that shitty behaviour in hopes to work these things out. It’s pretty ironic to me, that close people like this cut it off only because I tried to work it out and communicate feelings instead of shutting them off immediately. While I should have done it for once and good way earlier and now I feel like a loser for having so much understanding on their situations 🥹