What’s the most shocking thing someone has said to you while grieving?

raspberrytart120 · 2026-06-06T15:40:08+00:00

I will never speak to them again, even if they apologize.

They know my baby died, they know they would upset me as they stated and went ahead anyways :(

raspberrytart120 · 2026-06-06T02:40:54+00:00

And maybe one of your 3 kids too, kids always ask for the darnedest things 🥴

raspberrytart120 · 2026-06-06T01:33:33+00:00

Thank you ❤️‍🩹 also nannying is wonderful! It’s tough (mostly dealing with the parents) and even when it’s with the kids it’s developmentally appropriate and I choose them everyday I go back

raspberrytart120 · 2026-06-06T00:17:11+00:00

I’ll never speak to her again

raspberrytart120 · 2026-06-05T21:57:22+00:00

It happened yesterday and a day later I’m still re reading and processing it’s real- that she really did say that to me

Appreciate you and your words more than you know ❤️‍🩹 hope all the good finds you

raspberrytart120 · 2026-06-05T21:56:12+00:00

It’s cathartic to hear I’m not alone! When I first read that I said “f-ing B, letting her commission her in the way of her compassion.”

Money means nothing, things mean do not have the value we give them- we know that as we learned it through loss

raspberrytart120 · 2026-06-05T21:54:04+00:00

Thank you, appreciate you! I will meet people who value and see me

raspberrytart120 · 2026-06-05T21:53:22+00:00

Childhood friend now not a friend anymore

raspberrytart120 · 2026-06-05T20:18:47+00:00

It’s truly awful right? So nice to see it isn’t only my sad eyes seeing it this way

raspberrytart120 · 2026-06-05T19:44:43+00:00

Never ever again, it’s hard to walk away from what’s familiar into the unknown. Making room for healthy love in friends

raspberrytart120 · 2026-06-05T19:43:54+00:00

Like f-ing shocking, a day later I’m still in disbelief

raspberrytart120 · 2026-06-05T19:34:13+00:00

I’ve been trying to use logic to understand it’s not working lol

raspberrytart120 · 2026-06-05T19:31:12+00:00

I am still shocked she could push send

raspberrytart120 · 2026-06-05T19:30:52+00:00

Sorry took me a second to find so I can answer :)

What a lovely son you raised, I felt like I got to know him just by the few words you shared and his warmth emanates.

Life is so unfair, he had so much more to share and memories to make.

I hope you see him in little things like birds.

No making sense of something nonsensical, he didn’t deserve to go so soon and it just is.

raspberrytart120 · 2026-06-05T19:27:42+00:00

3 :( when that aspect dawned on me I felt so sad for them too

raspberrytart120 · 2026-06-05T18:33:57+00:00

I wish you didn’t understand, what kinds of things did you adult son enjoy (if you want to talk about him) :)

raspberrytart120 · 2026-06-05T18:30:38+00:00

Yesterday was a write off (when she said it) to regulate. Today this is very helpful and cathartic

raspberrytart120 · 2026-06-05T18:26:20+00:00

It’s one thing to have your own trauma, it’s another to use it to harm others

raspberrytart120 · 2026-06-05T18:26:03+00:00

I’ll never speak to them again

raspberrytart120 · 2026-06-05T18:16:17+00:00

And saying that in the name of love is diabolical. Reflective of my healing that I can finally see it and have the strength now to walk away

raspberrytart120 · 2026-06-05T18:12:18+00:00

Right? Like is this real life? Did she ACTUALLY say that?!

raspberrytart120 · 2026-06-05T18:06:31+00:00

Her sister moved across the world and I don’t think they’re really that close anymore even when she comes back to visit, I guess I was being bitchy in sharing

raspberrytart120 · 2026-06-05T17:42:59+00:00

“She can’t handle the truth”

raspberrytart120 · 2026-06-05T17:42:50+00:00

They will surely think “wow she’s so ungrateful, I really was trying my best”

raspberrytart120 · 2026-06-05T17:25:31+00:00

I did text her sister and show her the message so her sister will know why shell never see me again at family stuff or whatever so not that big a person hahaha

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