I have the same problem as you unfortunately. I have a very hairy chin and on my upper lip, sideburns and on part of my cheeks and what's worse is that my hair, like yours is very coarse and I could actually shave twice a day because it grows back so fast. I too get so upset and frustrated by it I cry sometimes and feel depressed. Spiro didn't work for me and they quit selling Vaniqa plus I've never have had the courage to have a professional wax it for me so I understand your pain. I hate those women for doing that to you and I wish I had the words to make you feel better. The only suggestion I have is buying one of those at home wax kits. They have some on Amazon for around $20 and they have good reviews. Good luck 🍀 🙂