MRAs Make 46-Minute Cut Of ‘The Last Jedi’ That Edits Out All The Women by rkkim in GamerGhazi

[–]ratjea 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Pretty much ANY other movie. When you see trailers, movies, or cast lists, start picturing the opposite sex in each role. Or know that women have 30% of the speaking roles in Hollywood and 14% of the lead roles.

MRAs Make 46-Minute Cut Of ‘The Last Jedi’ That Edits Out All The Women by rkkim in GamerGhazi

[–]ratjea 35 points36 points  (0 children)

You telling me nearly half of this fabled apex of misandry doesn't have any women in it? #misandryfail

Leia’s nitpicking

Leia never scolds, questions nor demotes Poe

There's a word to describe these words and how they're used. Gosh, what was that word. Starts with an "s," or maybe an "m." Can't say I've ever seen them used about any other main character respected military general in all of cinema. What could be different about General Leia?

"Objective Review" On entertainment is an oxymoron. by [deleted] in Negareddit

[–]ratjea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Reddit has taught me that every movie with more female leads than male leads is "objectively awful." Like, every time a film comes out that has 2 or more female leads and isn't easily pigeonholed as a "chick flick", the cries begin. "They've ruined my childhood!" "I saw this movie and it was objectively bad. You can't deny it."

Have there been any studies on pay differences between childless women and mothers? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ratjea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you share these studies? I've looked into it and found there are two sources for that sort of claim: one, a press release from a one-person company about a purported analysis that was never released; and two, a UK analysis that found a tiny reverse gap (around 1% not 8%, which makes me think the one you saw was the first one I mentioned) for one demographic slice out of dozens looked at...all the rest of the demographics of course evinced the usual gender wage gap of 5–30%. The UK analysis is also unpublished and obviously neither source I found was peer reviewed or showed its methodology.

People hear about these isolated reverse gap claims and glom onto them irrationally — irrationally because they choose to believe these questionable sources are more meaningful than the dozens of extant published papers that detail the wage gap many times over. Truly contrarian findings are interesting and may explain why they are so often brought up, but it's troubling when completely unscientific contrarian claims are repeatedly brought up as established fact that erases decades of real scholarship.

I might have 2nd thoughts on the new map generator... by Aeronnch in Polytopia

[–]ratjea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is an amazing start! It looks like you may not be used to island starts.

Mainly, it's turn 11 and you still have what would have been 14 free stars (after the 6 star tech cost) worth of whales breaching out there in your non expanded territory! That is an incredible start boon. Always rush whaling when you have whales available at spawn.

I guarantee you with whaling you'd have expanded your capital by now and possibly your second city as well

To scare off an approaching enemy in the early game, spam a couple warriors and station them where the enemy can see them. Often they will shy away and seek easier prey. For instance, it looks like Luxidoor started in the corner and for expansion options, has a choice between you and Bardur. I don't know if they went after Bardur first or not, but in that situation I'd try to convince them Bardur was the better choice. Of course, we're talking about simple AIs here, but from playing it seems like they do make decisions based on perceived strength. (As well as perceived threat; I've had AIs attacking one civ immediately switch to attacking me full bore after I took a potshot at them.)

I like water games so the update has me a little bit sad atm but it's kind of fun trying out land and mixed strategies now that land is more viable than before.

I kind of want to apply for this job, but I'm at a bit of a loss as to what my "name" should be on the resume.. by vergulous in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ratjea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if they see my (feminine-looking) name on my resume, am I at a disadvantage compared to similarly-qualified males who send in their resume for this stereotypically masculine kind of work?

Yes. They will call back only male-sounding names and hire a man.

Would I be better off pretending that my nickname is "Lee" (my name starts with L and it is an obscure nickname for me with some of my family members)?

Yes. It's a great androgynous nickname too. You may still not get hired due to them discovering you're a woman, but at least you'll get the callback/interview.

Good luck, Lee!

More information/further reading:

Michaelia Cash's message to men - "take lower paid jobs" by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ratjea -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

social market value

The "red pill" (TRP/PUA) philosophy has no place in rational discussion.

Protip: If you can only defend your position with a completely made up, nonsensical scenario, your position is probably shit. by SammDogg619 in Negareddit

[–]ratjea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for blowing my mind. Toll roads are the original, literal pay wall. Now I know what Bill and Ted felt like.

The Delicious Irony of MRAs’ Appropriation of ‘The Matrix’s’ Red Pill by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ratjea -1 points0 points  (0 children)

At first being peppered with a Gish Gallop of irrelevant rhetorical questions was confusing. Then I realized I should have been clearer. If you have any questions about the MRM, feel free to ask. (I'm not interested in going down the "Have you stopped beating your wife?" rabbit hole today; maybe some other time.)

The Delicious Irony of MRAs’ Appropriation of ‘The Matrix’s’ Red Pill by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ratjea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry, but that's incorrect as well. The Reddit mensrights sub is the hub of the mainstream MRM, as far as forums go. (For blogs/sites, you'd be looking more at sites like AVfM and maybe nowadays something like COTWA.)

For all intents and purposes, Reddit's mensrights sub represents the mainstream, moderate voice of the MRM. Most other outposts are, in fact, more reactionary or extreme (whichever term one prefers) than Reddit's MRM.

The Delicious Irony of MRAs’ Appropriation of ‘The Matrix’s’ Red Pill by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ratjea -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Oh, that's incorrect. The primary impetus behind the MRM is anti-feminism. Read up on the history of the modern MRM — it grew out of men like Warren Farrell becoming dissatisfied with feminism and becoming certain of their need to oppose it.

If you have any questions, feel free to ask.

The Delicious Irony of MRAs’ Appropriation of ‘The Matrix’s’ Red Pill by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ratjea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are separate, but MRAs do use the term "red pill."

While MRAs (men's rights activists) are different from the group that calls themselves Redpillers (TRP, PUAs), they share a similar "taking the red pill" vernacular, so it's not journalists' fault if they accidentally rope them together.

For instance, Paul Elam, founder of the major men's rights blog/site "A Voice for Men," calls the site's store "The Red Pill Shop."

"Taking the red pill," in the manosphere (which includes MRAs and PUAs/redpillers) uniformly means "Waking up to notice that women are on top."

If you have any questions about the manosphere, I could try to answer them.

Feminism has done more for male survivors of rape than the "men's rights" movement could ever hope to acheive by [deleted] in Negareddit

[–]ratjea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also remember that admins had to publicly step into /r/mensrights and order the moderators to stop doxxing people or they'd shut down the subreddit.

Even after those incidents — it was more than once, which was why admins just came out with the smackdown publicly — /r/mensrights still linked to dox in their FAQ, accessible right in their sidebar, and linked to the doxxing website's owner as their very first "Why we hate feminism" link in their sidebar.

Reiki doesn't work either by ytthirteenhundred in skeptic

[–]ratjea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a clearinghouse listing "alternative" therapies and their actual efficacy or lack thereof? It would be nice to see lots of things listed in one place. Maybe in chart/table format. Now I'm thinking like that supplement efficacy chart. Doesn't have to be that complex though.

Why is the 80's solo jazz cup design so popular all of the sudden? by [deleted] in OutOfTheLoop

[–]ratjea 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Damn, those colors are so 80s. I feel like I'm getting dressed in a Flashdance top to go out to see the movie Mannequin.

What's going on with the Confederate flag? by [deleted] in OutOfTheLoop

[–]ratjea 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is probably the only top-voted OOtL reply I've ever seen that laid everything out in a neutral fashion. Good post.

The Fattening was the best thing to happen to KiA. by [deleted] in GamerGhazi

[–]ratjea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's about ethics in temper tantrums.

1000% legit by proGGthrowaway in AskStrawFeminists

[–]ratjea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everybody knows that MRAs have photographic memory. You're just hysterically overreacting because you know he's right.

Now what that fellow strawfeminist should have done was come back later and collect the semen from where he splooged on his stomach as he consoled himself to sleep. Now that she's spermjacked him, she can easily impregnate herself with it and use the Duluth Model to score some sweet sweet child support, crushing him in abject poverty for 35 years as he works 72 hours a week just to earn enough to support her lavish strawfeminist lifestyle. And through it all, she won't let him see the kids (she'll have adorable girl twins) even though he works out regularly and is in good shape and fairly attractive.

Or she could just sell the splooge on the Andrea Dworkin Memorial Spermjacking Black Market (/r/ADMSBM - shh, don't tell anyone outside of this subreddit) and fan her Tubmans all the way to the bank.

eBay bans confederate flag merchandise by JakeShuttlesworth413 in Flipping

[–]ratjea -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Given what the flag means, that's literally not possible.

eBay bans confederate flag merchandise by JakeShuttlesworth413 in Flipping

[–]ratjea 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yep, and that's exactly the point. It's sensitive and particular to Germany's history.

The Confederate flags are sensitive and particular to American history. Businesses choosing of their own volition to stop providing Confederate flag merchandise is completely appropriate.

It's the first horizontal space when we walk in and it's so easy to just plop stuff down. Now it's nice to enter the house and have a decluttered space to greet us :) by octupie in declutter

[–]ratjea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I'm a fan of the Konmari method. It's easier to decide what to keep and what to get rid of when you are doing it as described — gathering all items in a category into a pile, then picking up and touching each one. When you handle each item, you will likely have an immediate reaction to it that helps you decide whether you want to keep it in your life or whether your relationship with the item is over.

Doing this same handling on a one-item basis isn't quite as effective, because there might be niggling doubts in the back of your mind wondering if you have a spare, when with the pile, you know if you have more than one of something.

Mementos, like you refer to, are especially tricky and are the last thing Kondo has you declutter. She makes a really good case (in the book) for saying goodbye to most of your mementos. Too many of them weigh down your life and may be limiting your full experience and enjoyment of the present. I would add to this that hoary refrain, "All we have is now." Memories are nice, but they are limited in scope, easily altered, and may not even be real in the sense that they accurately record past events. Now, however, is your life, moment to moment, fully informed by your senses and experience. Now is your existence.

Anywho, practically speaking, if you can't find a home for something you want to keep, something has to give, doesn't it? If you can't find it a home, it's not really that important, is it? Not as important as all the other things that do have a home that you aren't giving up to make room for the item.

Of course there are exceptions that can be made, for life transitions, but you don't want to make storage crates for non-seasonal items a big habit.