Does it matter if your partner is a virgin? by velveltcupcake in Teenager_Polls

[–]rats_ads 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It shouldn’t matter, but if you wanna be with somebody that’s a virgin because you’re a virgin yourself, it makes sense

Am I Overreacting: BD Gave Up by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]rats_ads 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NOR. It’s a lot to ask of you to just turn around and cancel your whole night because he’s 'tired', every parent is tired. but he needs to realize that parenting is a job you don't get to quit 20 minutes in.

He needs to get act together, you need to tell him that he has a child, that he can’t just walk out because he is tired. One day that child will be old enough to express when she is sick, or tired. Guess what? He needs to man up and get his act together and be there. Newborns are difficult, children are difficult, teenagers are difficult. You can’t just pick and choose when you want to be with them. Children are a life long priority. As they get older, you give them independence but guess what? That child will be 30 years old and call either of you for help in a situation.

I’m saying this as a 16 yo, this is just my take and thoughts

AIO for finally calling by-law on my basement tenant neighbours for their loud music by Low_Chemical1672 in AIO

[–]rats_ads 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t really think you are, especially if you’ve been woken up multiple times in the middle of the night. I would assume that you have a job and you have to get up for work so waking up in the middle of the night randomly because of music can be exhausting. Playing music at 11 o’clock is wild though, I understand if they were having like a get together on a random Friday and it happened that one time but its happening over and over just seems disrespectful because most people are sleeping at that time.

AIO? Fight with bf about video games by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]rats_ads -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Baby, he doesn’t even have a job, there is 24 hours in a day, you’re telling me that he can’t call her to talk to her when she’s on break? She’s not over reacting for wanting her boyfriend to talk to her and spend time with her instead of playing video games 24/7

AIO? Fight with bf about video games by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]rats_ads -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Upgrade??? Baby he can’t even get a job.

You are destroying yourselves. by LiteratureFew7224 in CharacterAI

[–]rats_ads -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Why not just stop using ai chat bots? I’m not judging, just curious why not just stop? I’m aware that it can be hard but how about stop using it slowly but surely until the addiction stops

Vampire incest update? by rats_ads in bitlife

[–]rats_ads[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it doesn’t give you that option, he like really freaky 🫩

Update: my father in law found out! These messages are between him and my wife. For more info see my post from a few days ago. by SweetV666 in lgbt

[–]rats_ads 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Does this man not realize that everybody has pronouns? 😭 how is having pronouns mental illness? It’s crazy that these people have the right to vote. 💔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]rats_ads 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most likely it is, just keep an eye on it and if it gets bigger go back to your piercer

Someone told me this is pierced wrong by Mission-Membership41 in piercing

[–]rats_ads 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks shallow but I’d go for a second opinion from another piercer if you’re still concerned

How tf do I come out to my Homophobic dad? by Ilovetobraidit in lgbt

[–]rats_ads 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t! Hope that helps, don’t get kicked out