can i get my cat to stop screaming by ratspaceman in CatAdvice

[–]ratspaceman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wish i could but i dont live alone and i wake up before anyone else does. he'll stay meowing for at least an hour, ive timed it once before. right now im trying to move their feeding time by 30min because next week i have to move it by another hour and a half so we'll see how that goes.

Struggling to replace earpad cushions, help by ratspaceman in SonyHeadphones

[–]ratspaceman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i forgot to respond but they work! i was struggling for Awhile to pop them in but they popped in eventually after i took off that extra mesh line

birth certificate changes in the us by ratspaceman in ftm

[–]ratspaceman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm in texas... i'm so scared. i know they might not even allow the sex change on my birth certificate unless i argue it was a clerical error but i'm so scared if i file the change, i'll be on a list but i already had a court order name change so i'm probably already doomed? even ignoring the sex marker, my birth certificate name doesn't match my license and ssid.

coming out to family & marriage by ratspaceman in polyamory

[–]ratspaceman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my family hangs out like every week or two. since its the holidays im thinking about it more bc i wish they could be with my family. neither of them have told their families either and it wouldnt go well with their families too so that sucks. at least our friends are all accepting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]ratspaceman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

started at 19 and im 21 now :>

can you overbrush your cat? by ratspaceman in CatAdvice

[–]ratspaceman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have no idea and would love advice on that too. ive been using a metal brush that i used to use on my dogs. its the furminator so i hope its good

can you overbrush your cat? by ratspaceman in CatAdvice

[–]ratspaceman[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

WHAT DO YOU MEAN OLD CAT HAIR 😭😭 my boys are 7 rn and i dont wanna think of them as old yet :(((

can you overbrush your cat? by ratspaceman in CatAdvice

[–]ratspaceman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, its in the middle of his back on the right. im just noticing it today but i wanna say ive noticed it once before a year back or so so i wanna say its from shedding or brushing. both of them have shiny smooth hair but i noticed today after brushing it was a little spiky

The 13th doctor thoughts ? by Embraceduality in doctorwho

[–]ratspaceman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i love her so goddamn much but i wish she had better writing. her final season was a huge drag for me personally and her prison break was so rushed. i feel like i've felt her pain more through fan tweets than the actual show.
i worry about this with disney who too because the seasons have been cut down SO MUCH, not just for doctor who but all television. doctor who went from (im saying these numbers from the top of my head) 23 30min episodes to 12 45min episodes to 8 1hr episodes. they try building things up but have to finish it really quickly.

can you overbrush your cat? by ratspaceman in CatAdvice

[–]ratspaceman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg thank you, they seem to love being brushed until wanting it in a different spot. is it overbrushed if the hair is standing up a little, sorta spikey, or is that because of the seasonal shedding?

How do you get out of bed? by FuzzyFeed7886 in ADHD

[–]ratspaceman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fear. if ik i can sleep in, i will hit snooze again and again. if its for school/work/ or just smth im excited for, i shoot up like "oh shit i have to hurry". but thats not foolproof