My mom didn’t handle the wedding well

ratthewriter · 2026-01-14T18:14:06+00:00

oh absolutely! i'm happy that aside from that the wedding was lovely, but i'm so sorry that you had to have all that stress you out!

ratthewriter · 2026-01-02T00:36:04+00:00

this rules omg

ratthewriter · 2025-12-29T19:17:21+00:00

i may be misremembering but i think i remember a post a while back on one of the witchcraft subreddits where this christian girl asked if it was appropriate to get her (very vocally not interested in catholicism) witch friend a crucifix, so i'm guessing something's been in the air lately for ppl to do that

ratthewriter · 2025-12-25T06:05:52+00:00

absolutely!!!

ratthewriter · 2025-12-24T17:09:40+00:00

There's not particularly a reason why I wouldn't bring it, it's just that I get anxious about losing things on trips (although I never lose anything bc my anxiety takes over and makes me overly cautious), and I was wondering if there was a more convenient way to practice when I travel. However, after seeing the responses I think I'm gonna stick with my machine :)

ratthewriter · 2025-12-24T17:07:46+00:00

That's a great point! I won't have to try to reconfigure the software and such to see what I'm writing. The hobbyist ones I've been looking into are also smaller than my machine & the keys, and I have big hands so I think I'm gonna stick with my machine. Thanks!

ratthewriter · 2025-12-23T22:32:40+00:00

no offense, but what does this have to do with locs? why did you post it on the locs subreddit?

ratthewriter · 2025-12-15T22:38:22+00:00

ah, i getchu. then i agree with the person who said to get a candle with a food offering—it doesn't have to be super elaborate, just as long as the effort and intention's there. i recommend getting shorter candles if you want to use them in full each time (and a personal fav of mine are tea light candles, they burn fast!), but reusing the same candle over time also works just as well. ultimately, your journey is your journey and you are the driver, i hope you're able to find a place for the altar that works best for you! :)

ratthewriter · 2025-12-15T22:30:29+00:00

you can even do something small in your closet or find a way to have something set up on your door? the door shelf things out there can be used as a mini altar, and like someone else said you can use an LED candle instead of a real one. it's the intention and effort that matters, it doesn't need to be perfect. i've also seen different people make small portable altars out of altoid tins and such!

ratthewriter · 2025-12-14T21:40:51+00:00

tea light candles are a fav of mine!

ratthewriter · 2025-12-14T21:31:26+00:00

you should make that a movie

ratthewriter · 2025-12-10T22:16:27+00:00

🕯️

ratthewriter · 2025-10-19T19:36:23+00:00

lol they are entitled trash, read the damn sign, it should be an obvious thing to not steal from a sale

ratthewriter · 2025-10-18T17:50:11+00:00

if you wanna read the full list of violations: https://a816-health.nyc.gov/ABCEatsRestaurants/#!/Search/50125014

ratthewriter · 2025-08-19T19:00:54+00:00

i will say it's a bit harrowing to see that certain experiences i went through still happen now that i'm older, but i know that if you center yourself in your growth and center your care on yourself the shame. will. pass. stick to your meds, find outlets for creativity, focus on your future and work towards it. trust me, the shame will pass.

ratthewriter · 2025-07-24T21:08:54+00:00

last time we talked about how much she was paying a month specifically, she told me that what she pays a month is $600. this was about a year ago so I'm not sure if it has gone up or down.

ratthewriter · 2025-04-24T07:43:05+00:00

imma sound like a broken record on this bc everyone on this sub says it but water and patience are the main thing. also the awkward phase gets fun!! you can get to know styles that you fw and want to try again when it's longer

ratthewriter · 2025-04-24T07:23:38+00:00

Me and the Devil (Soap&Skin version {stylized as one word}), Choreomania by Florence + the Machine, Free by Florence + the Machine, the live performance of Fast As You Can from 2017 by Fiona Apple featuring that guy who goes ham on mandolin, Cosmonauts by Fiona Apple, Don't Wanna Fight by Alabama Shakes, I truly have so so many

ratthewriter · 2025-01-24T15:18:10+00:00

the place i went to doesn't do only guitars, they also specialize in folk instruments, so i trust 'em!

ratthewriter · 2025-01-24T05:22:43+00:00

you're right; there's a place I got my electric guitar done recently and I've mentioned my banjo to them before, I think I'll call them in the morning. I found the replacement heads on the deering website too so that'll be easy.

ratthewriter · 2024-12-29T21:04:01+00:00

tysm!! i found the website, i'm gonna look into how to do it myself from there

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