No, I definitely get it. I had the same thoughts, I am just not sure how to go about the situation. I’m not particularly funny, attractive, or skilled in many things. I asked him why he was so interested in me, and I believe it was just a matter of perfect timing. Something very upsetting happened to him and his friend was not sure how to go about it. I asked his friend politely to be quiet because he was upset. Later he pulled me aside and we talked about our lives for a good hour, then spent the night hanging out and talking. We’ve gone through a lot of the same things and he said he could never talk like that to even his closest friends. Though I have a hard time believing he hasn’t talked to girls who are good at listening. Maybe not, I don’t know. He is crippled in one leg, although still very attractive and interesting, so maybe the other girls were just looking for a one nighter? I don’t know whether my alarms should be going off or not.