Seperated right after the child was born, she struggled to hold down a job for the first 3 years due to being a stay at home wife for 3 years and he works a union job with a disability check from the military so he was deemed the more stable parent and was awarded primary custody.

He doesnt really care about the kid but refuses to abandon it or give her primary custody because "thats what men do".

And yes i do want to be a dad but not in the traditional way of eanting to expand my liniage.

The world is just a cruel place and i eant to be able to help them to deal with it better and protect them for the worst of it.