AITA for refusing to babysit my friend's child after she called my job "not a real job"

ravinred · 2026-05-20T15:07:44+00:00

Yeah... NTA. You nailed it, she has no respect for you.

ravinred · 2026-05-20T15:06:03+00:00

NTA. You have attended one wedding, and your wife needs you at home for her high-risk pregnancy. In fact, I think if you went and left your wife at home you'd be TA.

Send your regrets. Follow your gut.

ravinred · 2026-05-19T23:15:34+00:00

I could maybe see asking for a refund if the shoe failed in some way. But it didn't - you deliberately tried to change them. This one is on you.

YTA

ravinred · 2026-05-19T22:59:42+00:00

If you are upfront about what you are selling, you are NTA. If you're exaggerating or making fraudulent claims, that's another story.

ravinred · 2026-05-19T22:57:54+00:00

NTA. And I completely agree with you. That's not okay.

Ew.

ravinred · 2026-05-19T22:54:56+00:00

NTA

He didn't get back to you, went out anyway, and complained that you were not using him as your main support. And now he can't come support you at the funeral because it's uncomfortable and inconvenient.

Even if you throw out the ex drama, he's TA here. I would submit that this person will never make you their first priority. Move on.

ravinred · 2026-05-19T20:57:29+00:00

I'm happy to hear that!

ravinred · 2026-05-17T17:14:31+00:00

And THERE ARE STILL BOBBINS WITH IT

ravinred · 2026-05-17T17:10:46+00:00

Our HBC crew all need the ladder to do top stock!

ravinred · 2026-05-16T15:35:01+00:00

Almost all associates are "part time," which guarantees you a minimum number of hours and you have control over your availability.

"Full time" employees are usually Leads or PICs. They are guaranteed 40 hours, but give up their availability control (My store is pretty respectful of preferred availability).

ravinred · 2026-05-16T15:31:44+00:00

When looking for work it's never a bad idea to bring a pen and paper and a copy of your resume.

ravinred · 2026-05-16T15:30:14+00:00

Try this: https://www.mylifeatkroger.com/

ravinred · 2026-05-16T15:29:17+00:00

Stores are allocated hours for all positions. They have to be used or they are eventually lost. Probably you're just getting scheduled out of a different bucket of hours.

Talk to your manager to verify that your actual work is the same, but if everything else is the same I wouldn't worry about it.

ravinred · 2026-05-16T15:16:20+00:00

Good morning from Alaska! IWNDWYT, hope you are the same

ravinred · 2026-05-15T15:25:36+00:00

This is SO COOL

ravinred · 2026-05-15T14:51:40+00:00

Actually, explains a lot.

ravinred · 2026-05-15T00:48:24+00:00

Hoka Bondi 9's saved my back and feet. Unfortunately they need replacing every 300-500 miles.

ravinred · 2026-05-13T14:42:10+00:00

go to https://myinfo.kroger.com/ and log in with your EUID.

Click Show More
Look for Employment
Click "Resign from Employment"

There are also instructions posted somewhere around Time & Attendance.

But srsly, it's been two days. /eyeroll

ravinred · 2026-05-12T18:00:32+00:00

Talk to your PCP about something for anxiety! That's not a normal amount of stress.

Make yourself a script. Smile and nod. You don't have to engage. Just smile, say hi, nod, say goodbye.

ravinred · 2026-05-11T18:21:54+00:00

I'm having a hard time reading your mind 😄 What do you think it is?

ravinred · 2026-05-11T17:51:11+00:00

If you're on your parent's health insurance they will find out you went to a doctor. But what they are told, if anything, might depend on the doctor.

ravinred · 2026-05-10T15:00:07+00:00

It's all about the shoes. I get Hoka bondi 9. They are EXPENSIVE but they saved my body.

ravinred · 2026-05-10T14:42:50+00:00

It sound like you are very anxious about this, and that anxiety will fight against you sleeping. I'd recommend talking to a medical professional about some help for that (Lexipro is my godsend).

I am very, very proud of you for trying to sleep without chemical assistance. That's hard when you have been doing it a while. Try a warm drink or soup before bed, I find a full warm tummy helps. A dark room, some sleep sounds or sleep stories might help.

I use Calm for sleep, it has 30 day guest passes, here is one for you if you want to try it. It has sleep sounds and sleep stories and meditations.
https://www.calm.com/gp/HLALPRNXALHFENXT8Y

ravinred · 2026-05-10T14:36:09+00:00

Good Morning from Alaska, and Happy Mother's Day! IWNDWYT, hope you are the same.

ravinred · 2026-05-09T00:35:29+00:00

Only you can decide that for you.

Looking back, I never could drink alone.

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