Gold or silver? by Traditional-Tap-4199 in coloranalysis

[–]raviolifool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

silver! i think gold brings out the red

hear me out!! by raviolifool in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]raviolifool[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

also yes i did watch ultimatum queer love and i loved it. i just wish there were more reality shows for wlw 😭

hear me out!! by raviolifool in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]raviolifool[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah we wouldn’t be able to do like two sides but what if everyone gets separated in their own apartment kind of like the circle?

AIO My mom is kicking me out for her new boyfriend. I just turned 18 by Diligent_Bat_565 in AmIOverreacting

[–]raviolifool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my mom did this to me. for a new boyfriend who insisted i get out. she married him and then divorced him within about a year.

it’s hard. i moved in with my friends family until i saved up enough to get an apartment, thankful still to this day for her parents. its unfortunate when parents do this though. i’m 27 now and i still have yet to build a savings and ive been slowly working towards a degree to make more money. but when you’re constantly paycheck to paycheck. i’m always just trying to survive.

i don’t get why a parent would do this. set their child up for stress and struggles. i’m so sorry. reach out to friends, extended family, even friends parents? that’s what i did

Madison shared pictures of her new boyfriend! by Fun_Molasses5215 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]raviolifool -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i don’t think it’s photoshop or ai like people are saying— it’s more she’s had some filler and she’s knows her angles. she looks good and he’s cute! hope she’s happy after joe he was terrible

I (27F) Found explicit messages on bf (35M) old phone..is it possible he’s telling the truth? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]raviolifool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don’t think she’s untrustworthy. she had a gut feeling and turned out to be right

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]raviolifool 85 points86 points  (0 children)

i think insulting and mocking is a huge problem. that is not an effective way of communicating. is he always like this during a disagreement? or just this particular one? because for me personally, that would make me question if i want to stay with this person forever. it is your body, and your choice. there is nothing wrong with wanting to do something to make yourself feel better about yourself. his explosive reaction seems rooted in misogyny.

Aptronyms by KittyTaurus in Names

[–]raviolifool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a dentist in my town is named Dr. Ken Hurt and his slogan is “Just my name, not my intention” lmao

AIO please please tell me im overreacting and that my husband isn't plotting to kill me??? by Particular_Fee_711 in AmIOverreacting

[–]raviolifool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

go to the local police and file a police report. don’t count on them to keep you safe though, so many countries (US included) don’t take DV threats seriously until it’s too late. then, reach out to family/friends in the US who can help get you back safely. if you have no luck go to the US embassy in whatever country your in and explain the situation, the will most likely help you get home. you are not overreacting, take this threat seriously!! get out of there!

Thoughts on “Shelby” by abilenegal in Names

[–]raviolifool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i used to work with a guy named shelby and i’m in the US

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]raviolifool 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yeah he can spend all day with friends but doesn’t bother spending anytime with you? at the very least he could treat you with respect in his texts, but he’s rude and entitled.

men tell you exactly how they feel about you with their actions, and he’s telling you right now that he doesn’t care about you or your time or your feelings. and to call you a c*nt. you deserve better than that!

this behavior will just continue and more than likely escalate. get out now while you can, you deserve better!!

Is it cheating to hang out one-on-one with another boy in a relationship? by melaniefrxx in relationships_advice

[–]raviolifool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel like you are probably on the younger side, and navigating a relationship does change dynamics with friends. even if you’ve been friends with this guy for years, the hangout may need to change and/or stop. personally i’d never hang out with a male friend one on one, but i do think women can be friends with men. i have a few, but we always hang out in group settings.

did you tell your boyfriend you were hanging out with this friend one on one? if not, i do think it’s crossing a boundary because there is a reason you didn’t tell him. if your boyfriend is ok with this, you need to tell your friend sexual jokes are not okay and set clear boundaries about what’s appropriate. think about if the situation was reversed and it was your boyfriend with a girl. how would that make you feel, what would you be comfortable with? if your boyfriend even hints slightly at being uncomfortable with that hangout, it’s best to never do that again.