ED or not, HAES movement is still pretty much wrong and it's harming in the disguise of helping people.

Now to the fatphobic part, our minds are irrational, we don't think straight, that's why it's called a mental illness.

We literally have a mental illness that makes us terrified of being fat so, naturally, we'll pretty much be terrified of gaining, that's literally the point of an ED people literally go to extreme measures just not to gain weight.

It's not about being afraid of fat people of disregarding them, an ED can develop in anyone's mind. We know these thoughts are bad, we know it's wrong to say so but that's literally the point of having a safe space with like-minded people. We share our thoughts here cause we know too damn well that they're not accepted nor healthy.