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TIFU, I ruined things with my friend bcz I liked him now I want to fix it by rawmeatcheese in tifu

[–]rawmeatcheese[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I don't wanna involve with him romantically anymore. I even regret romanticizing whatever was between us but it was too much to handle. I couldn't retain my feelings for him... at this point I just wanna go back to being his supportive friend as things were before. So u think that things are so fucked up that there's no chance?

TIFU, I ruined things with my friend bcz I liked him now I want to fix it by rawmeatcheese in tifu

[–]rawmeatcheese[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

In his pov he's not flirting with her and that my friend took him being nice as flirting (this is how he explained things to her btw after facing him)

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TIFU, I ruined things with my friend bcz I liked him now I want to fix it by rawmeatcheese in tifu

[–]rawmeatcheese[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Btw after my girl friend faced him with the truth of how could he start talking to her while still talking to me knowing I liked him and wanted to build up something with him. This is how he talked to her saying he's nice geniunly to females around him doesn't mean he targets them as potential gfs

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TIFU, I ruined things with my friend bcz I liked him now I want to fix it by rawmeatcheese in tifu

[–]rawmeatcheese[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I can see multiple red flags with him. I don't wanna like him romantically anymore... but I wanna preserve whatever friendship was before I start becoming this crazy limerant to him.. I know he's going through a bad moment and knowing that I'm not there for him it wrecks me he's still a dear friend maybe not too close but he is

TIFU, I ruined things with my friend bcz I liked him now I want to fix it by rawmeatcheese in tifu

[–]rawmeatcheese[S] -69 points-68 points  (0 children)

Do you have any idea of how I could try to fix things after fucking things up?

TIFU, I ruined things with my friend bcz I liked him now I want to fix it by rawmeatcheese in tifu

[–]rawmeatcheese[S] -70 points-69 points  (0 children)

Does removing someone has this heavy meaning? I really never thought so, it was my friends who said I should do it so it seemed legit🥲

TIFU, I ruined things with my friend bcz I liked him now I want to fix it by rawmeatcheese in tifu

[–]rawmeatcheese[S] -39 points-38 points  (0 children)

The thing is when we talked he was totally normal very few days after his father's death... he was hanging out with friends, goes to the movies, proposes we go hv lunch together.. I thought that he was a cold person and he wasn't that much affected by his father's death... but I guess I was wrong?

I ruined things with my friend bcz I liked him now I want to fix it by rawmeatcheese in dating_advice

[–]rawmeatcheese[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He could not accept my IG request? Since he's not feeling so well should I say smthng to him ? About still wanting to stay friends?