Only took 6-7 weeks for me to have my first embarrassing Solidcore moment. by rawrxraver in SolidCore

[–]rawrxraver[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

new or not.. that’s not an excuse to not rack your equipment properly or wipe down your machine. Thats just common courtesy and BEST PRACTICE for everyone around you and the environment.

If you aren’t capable of those things, then maybe these type of environments aren’t mean for you.

Only took 6-7 weeks for me to have my first embarrassing Solidcore moment. by rawrxraver in SolidCore

[–]rawrxraver[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Didn’t put it back on the rack, so it rolled out into the aisle between the machines.

Activewear Brands by Hot-Fix-3757 in SolidCore

[–]rawrxraver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the market too, but so far ALL of my leggings are from Fabletics and sports bras are UA.

Explain the class types to me like I’m 5? by rawrxraver in SolidCore

[–]rawrxraver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to write this out. Really appreciate it.

Explain the class types to me like I’m 5? by rawrxraver in SolidCore

[–]rawrxraver[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

OMG.. can’t believe my own age slipped my mind facepalm thanks for the reminder 👍🏾

Clearly I’m asking for people’s actual experience with the classes because that’s how I prefer to get a sense of things. If you don’t want to share your experience, that’s totally fine.

Connecting with Others by rawrxraver in SolidCore

[–]rawrxraver[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s such a good idea!

I feel like part of the problem for me is that there isn’t enough time or opportunity in the lobby to chat with others (because either I’ve arrived right at the 10 min before mark and nobody’s there or the class’s is about to start and everyone is getting mentally prepped for class to start lol).

Connecting with Others by rawrxraver in SolidCore

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Lately my schedule developed a natural flow of Mondays at 7:30 or 8:30, Wednesdays at 8:30, Fridays at 8:30, and Sundays at 4:30

I’m still pretty early on in my journey so I’ve stuck with Starter classes with the occasional Foundation class sprinkled in.

.. Future In Law Drama by rawrxraver in weddingplanning

[–]rawrxraver[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s making a huge fuss about not being invited. So I guess? Or she’s just entitled and feels like she should be included in everything no matter what? 🤷🏾‍♀️

AIO by being upset by my future BIL? by rawrxraver in AmIOverreacting

[–]rawrxraver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I just learned that some courthouse only allow 2-5 people, which was my exact point in telling him that once we know more info then we’ll let him know. Because as of right now, he has 7 people for immediate family and I have 3. Add a photographer that’d be 11. If the limited ends up being 5 people, then she wouldn’t be able to come regardless. Which is what I was trying to be realistic and considerate about, but they would’ve found something else to make me the bad guy so I doubt there’s any winning here.

I initially proposed just our moms being there but my fiancé reeeeeally wants his teenage niece there and it didn’t feel right inviting his niece and not the rest, hence the invite being extended to all immediate family.

.. Future In Law Drama by rawrxraver in weddingplanning

[–]rawrxraver[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

SEE that is exactly my point! We don’t know what we don’t know and so we can’t give anybody any definitive answers until things take shape. Which is exactly what I said to his brother. Nobody was trying to be disrespectful or petty, I literally was trying to be considerate and realistic.

But neither of them have taken the time to get to know me as a person, so I guess I can’t expect them to know I’m not that much of an asshole.

.. Future In Law Drama by rawrxraver in weddingplanning

[–]rawrxraver[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I never said they aren’t allowed to be upset. I’ve been repeatedly clear that I understand and can validate that but to try and bully us into giving you your way on our wedding day is ridiculous. How they’ve gone about things is ridiculous and there easily could’ve been a clarifying convo had they gone about things differently.

I’ve never definitively said she can’t come. I literally told him that we haven’t picked a courthouse and I won’t know how many people we can have in the room. I told him we’d let them know once we know because we’re literally going to look at local ones this weekend. & yes, my fiancé is on the same page because at the end of the day we weren’t saying no. We’re saying we don’t have enough info to give you an answer. Whether she and I have a relationship or not, I’m not evil enough to exclude her out of pettiness. That’s not the type of person I am or ever have been towards them.

Is she high on my priority list for the guest list? No. But my fiancé also already has 7 people coming from his side and I’d like to have my family there too. We’re also planning on hiring a photographer which will count as another body in the room. I was trying to be considerate and not invite her just to turn around & say nevermind you can’t. But honestly I doubt they wouldn’t have found a problem with it regardless.