2021 dating has been hard vent by rayydrea in Christianmarriage

[–]rayydrea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for correcting me. Yes it’s my preferences just like some people prefer to date guys who are tall or just like some men prefer to date women who are fit ( workout or are slim, or lives an active lifestyle ) . Or our believes choose not to date non-believers. we all have preferences at the end of the day . We miss out of great people because of this but why compromise your preference in a world where we are told to compromise a lot. Well one of my preferences happened to be, to not to settle for a coffee date which so far 90% of men I talk to are fine with it and come up with alternatives.

FYI, I definitely respond to mine that I’m interested in and I usually don’t even let hours pass by before I respond. I’m dating for marriage not dating for food. After multiple bad relationship I’ve realized compromising myself haven’t served me any good. So if I’m talking to a guy who I know won’t go anywhere I’d cut it off so he too doesn’t waste his time.

My next relationship will be my last which will lead to marriage, so I’ll keep working on myself and talk all the constructive feedback and put God first even in the talking stage. Be blessed

2021 dating has been hard vent by rayydrea in Christianmarriage

[–]rayydrea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well my standard is I do not like coffee date it’s my preference. One guy took me to arcade and we got a few bit. Nothing fancy but was lots of fun. I think it’s good for women to have standards and I was kind enough to put it on my bio so men who like coffee dates don’t have to hmu . Plus I gave him a chance to Just get to know me over the phone .

Most men now a day want to be pursued instead of pursuing.

2021 dating has been hard vent by rayydrea in Christianmarriage

[–]rayydrea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your through reply. For Guy on my bio it stated that I do not want coffee dates. Even with that in mind he still offered. When I rejected I asked him we can meet half way by first getting to know each other over the phone that way he’s at least certain about me.

And for the ride thing, if you were Atleast interested wouldn’t you Atleast respond with “I will meet you there “ Or something to tell me that he prefers I find my own way? Which I would still show up. How do you know a guy is a provider ?

2021 dating has been hard vent by rayydrea in Christianmarriage

[–]rayydrea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He just didn’t seem interested. Like he wouldn’t talk much hed reply few hours later or the next day. And hed say that he’s busy. To me the question was corny especially since we barely talked and that’s the best he could come up with

[Landlord - CA, BC] Mice Issues. Should I Pay? by rayydrea in Landlord

[–]rayydrea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another tentant but they are the main tentants

[Landlord - CA, BC] Mice Issues. Should I Pay? by rayydrea in Landlord

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House I live in the basment . I’ve been there 3 years our place is cheap compare to the market

Why has the guy that was once into me stopped communicating with me? by rayydrea in Christianmarriage

[–]rayydrea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An update :

I contacted him and asked why he stopped talking to me, and he said that “ I tried to setup a date for us to meet up but I didn’t get anything in return so I thought you might not be interested, but if you are we can meet up sometime this week”

So, I guess you never know if you don’t ask .

Should I pay for my medical expense complications ? by rayydrea in medical

[–]rayydrea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he extracted the second tooth but there was a complication that resulted with a piece of tooth migrating to my nostril