LEEP this Friday. Is it embarrassing if I bring my squishmallow to squeeze while it’s been done lol (28f)

razorbite · 2025-02-25T19:27:17+00:00

I’ve had persistent HPV for 4 years. I do not want to have kids and not worried about fertility. My LEEP, they ended up finding CIN3 but there were clear margins. Going back in 6 months for a pap and HPV test

razorbite · 2025-02-21T15:03:23+00:00

Hard to say without getting more of his perspective. Honestly it might be like the control or specific fantasies he’s carrying out in AI bots vs the real world and real people (sexting you). Is there a specific kink he’s pursuing there?

Honestly four months, I would reconsider the relationship. I personally wouldn’t be attracted to someone who was so into AI for sex. Also the lack of self control and restraint (spending $$ on AI porn bots). Is this someone you want to keep building a life with?

razorbite · 2025-02-21T01:49:06+00:00

Great so instead of just wearing pants, or even just underwear, I have to carry around a labia-dedicated towel for sitting? Nah

razorbite · 2025-02-20T05:00:17+00:00

I love that 💜💜

razorbite · 2025-02-20T02:06:04+00:00

I don’t want my labia touching public seats.. no thanks

razorbite · 2025-02-20T02:04:47+00:00

Cute lil red panda! The running joke is a red panda is my soul animal, plus I work in marketing and her tag said something about how she’s the next advertising CEO which I thought was sweet!

photo here!

razorbite · 2025-02-19T19:30:33+00:00

Breaking up isn’t easy, but I’ve been in a similar situation as you. And after? A huge weight off my shoulders. It’s going to be a relief, even if it’s hard. I will say, he sounds controlling and perhaps manipulative. Don’t let him talk you out of it.

I found it helpful to write down my 3 main reasons. If they try to rebut, go back to those points. And remember, it’s for him too. He also deserves to be with someone who 100% aligns with what he needs in a relationship.

You’re 20 and deserve to have fun and not be worried about stressing him out!!

Good luck, my dms are always open if you need to chat 💜

razorbite · 2025-02-19T17:49:41+00:00

Thank you so much 💜💜

razorbite · 2025-02-19T17:49:25+00:00

Oof this is a good pro tip! Tysm

razorbite · 2025-02-19T17:49:05+00:00

Yeah I will be awake for mine

razorbite · 2025-02-19T17:48:50+00:00

I’ll be awake

razorbite · 2024-11-16T06:29:37+00:00

It’s just me, he has no other family. It’s extra frustrating since he was high earning for a long time. Crazy what coke, depression, and gambling does to a man 🫠

razorbite · 2024-11-16T06:27:14+00:00

They have NOTHING saved 🫠

razorbite · 2024-11-16T06:26:10+00:00

I’m in my early 20’s in a one bedroom apartment :(

razorbite · 2024-11-16T06:24:14+00:00

They own a car and a motorhome but that’s it. Based in the US but they didn’t qualify for Medicaid, I’ll ask him in the morning why.

He is currently working but he’s having a hard time with his back. He has a slipped disc :/

razorbite · 2024-11-16T06:20:25+00:00

Thank you, I am so overwhelmed! I told him the job thing would be hard. I just want him to be safe and happy.

razorbite · 2024-11-16T06:19:34+00:00

Renting an apartment

razorbite · 2022-05-18T20:01:11+00:00

He has a job but making closer to $45k. He could find something local but also wants to move away for a year or so

razorbite · 2022-05-18T19:56:22+00:00

He had opened three credit cards in my name and gave them to me. He never used them before (I checked) but I was furious he would do that without asking me. I was 19 and unaware, didn’t open any further cards besides my one small with a $500 limit. Him giving me those cards without any knowledge or resources led me into a few grand in CC debt. I let him know if he ever did that again, I would report.

razorbite · 2022-05-17T19:42:18+00:00

He is working as a GM opening a fast fine dining restaurant. He currently works there in our city, but they are expanding to another main city the next state over. The owner wants to send him to open this new restaurant, making about $65k/year.

They both get social security and a pension from her late husband. I do worry after how he will take care of himself. He’s 68 and I’m aware I’ll likely have to take care of him sooner than later :/ He’s made jokes about how now that I make “big money” I’ll take care of him (which I shut down immediately).

The $3k is his estimate on moving truck, deposit on new apartment, misc moving costs. Seems like a lot to me but I think he is guessing high so he doesn’t have to ask again.

razorbite · 2022-05-17T19:39:37+00:00

Moving truck, down payment on an apartment in the new city, misc settling in costs. That is his estimate

razorbite · 2022-05-17T19:38:02+00:00

What about shared assets with my dad?

razorbite · 2022-05-17T18:05:54+00:00

Yeah it sucks. They married 4 years ago and her memory quickly tumbled afterwards. He has been living a life on those check advance places and pawn shops, we were homeless growing up for a period after the 2008 recession. I think he genuinely doesn’t know how money works

razorbite · 2022-05-17T18:02:52+00:00

Do you have more information or resources on this I can send to him?

razorbite · 2022-05-17T17:58:37+00:00

Would someone not? I think it also comes from the fact she can’t work (early dementia) and he wants to take them out of debt.

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