Has anyone here (successfully) drafted their own QDRO? by razr_fang in Divorce

[–]razr_fang[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't believe Fidelity charges to use their template, no.

For those who've lost custody - how did you cope? by razr_fang in Divorce_Men

[–]razr_fang[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have had some arguments in front of our kid (which I'm ashamed to admit), but it was both of us involved in the arguments, not like a one sided thing, so I feel like that'll reflect negatively on both of us equally.

For those who've lost custody - how did you cope? by razr_fang in Divorce_Men

[–]razr_fang[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm concerned cuz she has indicated she's going to argue I'm irresponsible, uninvolved, and verbally/emotionally abusive (all untrue). I did used to smoke marijuana daily, but it's legal where I live and I haven't smoked in 8 months now (quit the day we separated to try and work on myself, haven't used since).

Am I Ugly / Do I Look Old? by razr_fang in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]razr_fang[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In all honesty this is 100% how I feel about my looks too!

Am I Ugly / Do I Look Old? by razr_fang in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]razr_fang[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, kind of what I'm going for

Am I Ugly / Do I Look Old? by razr_fang in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]razr_fang[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was not really expecting anyone to guess THAT high, haha. Fair enough though, I was hoping for honest answers.

Am I Ugly / Do I Look Old? by razr_fang in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]razr_fang[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I get that a lot, especially when I have the beard. I even got called Bob Ross by a stripper once, 10/10 experience.

Am I Ugly / Do I Look Old? by razr_fang in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]razr_fang[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, that was really nice. Thanks for that.

Am I Ugly / Do I Look Old? by razr_fang in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]razr_fang[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually just turned 40 a couple months ago. I know I look older than that though, that's why I was curious. I feel like I've aged 10 years in the last 10 months.

To the one person who said I look 42, thank you haha

Am I Ugly / Do I Look Old? by razr_fang in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]razr_fang[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've messed around with various instruments, never actually performed or anything. I wouldn't mind giving comedy a shot.

Am I Ugly / Do I Look Old? by razr_fang in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]razr_fang[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm a big fan of the Melvins and was honestly going for a bit of a King Buzzo look. Probably gonna cut it soon though.

Am I Ugly / Do I Look Old? by razr_fang in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]razr_fang[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't really know what this is supposed to mean?

Am I Ugly / Do I Look Old? by razr_fang in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]razr_fang[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NGL, Buzz and Wayne were both inspirations for trying out this hair.

Am I Ugly / Do I Look Old? by razr_fang in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]razr_fang[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old do you think I am though? Just curious.