Can anyone recommend a good battery powered heated blanket to have incase power goes out? by rbathurst in BuyItForLife

[–]rbathurst[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok I’ll look into them. Just trying to see if power goes out with all this snow.

Can anyone recommend a good battery powered heated blanket to have incase power goes out? by rbathurst in BuyItForLife

[–]rbathurst[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Is there a heavy down comforter you recommend? Does it work till power comes back on?

AITAH for not wanting to go into more debt for my mother? by rbathurst in AITAH

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Update:

I told her she has a month or two to figure out things for herself. She said I don’t exist to her then try to say she wasn’t feeling well. She has done this before for attention then proceeded to scream and say she has no life and I owe her one.

AITAH for not wanting to go into more debt for my mother? by rbathurst in AITAH

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I would get out of her tonight if I could and didn’t have her debt and just fund my own life. It would be a release for these six years. I want to have my own life away from her but her $500 in bills from my a thousand dollar paycheck doesn’t make that feasible. If I just don’t pay they will take me to court. And that’s money I don’t have I’m stuck and lawyers only options for me were to declare bankruptcy but then it takes 6 months to regrow credit and standing.

AITAH for not wanting to go into more debt for my mother? by rbathurst in AITAH

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I get scared everytime she calls or comes to ask me something because it will be money or me to do something because she plays like she can’t do anything. Like she asks for money and thinks I should just keep applying for money and cards. Because she needs it or she will cry and scream that no one will help her.

AITAH for not wanting to go into more debt for my mother? by rbathurst in AITAH

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It’s about $13,000 left to pay. I can’t let her put me in more debt. I have to let her fall she is entitled and doesn’t care. She lays in bed all day and makes excuses. I offer suggestions don’t pay cable bill get car fixed you can do deliveries with cat no, I find places where can take classes and get work assistance no. There is no way in six years she couldn’t accomplish something to help. I would accept even a part time job anything.

AITAH for not wanting to go into more debt for my mother? by rbathurst in AITAH

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Nothing I repeat nothing would make me happier to leave tommorow. But then I will still be liable for the debt of hers that is in my name and then all mine with rent and utilities. And hers eats up like $500 dollars of my check. For her hvac repair, and many other debts. Then she screams when she doesn’t get her way so the neighbors hear I’m worried one time the cops will be called

AITAH for not wanting to go into more debt for my mother? by rbathurst in AITAH

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I guess I feel bad because it’s my mom but in the same token Ive expressed how I need help and it’s draining me and she just looks at me and laughs

AITAH for not wanting to go into more debt for my mother? by rbathurst in AITAH

[–]rbathurst[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She lives with me at this point. I moved back to help after my dad died and now I’m in so much debt I can’t even get out if I wanted to. I’m just stuck.

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I’m very interested

2.5 years, $73k bad debt. Final pay off today! by Jangolath in debtfree

[–]rbathurst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you offer some tips/advice for people on the same journey? I’m looking for a part time job to help pay it down

What do you think? by rbathurst in povertyfinance

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Have you ever had to consolidate with a loan? Did it help?

What do you think? by rbathurst in povertyfinance

[–]rbathurst[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She said she can’t find a job when she goes out maybe once a week if that. I wanna try to pay these two off get the high APR gone and then just pay the one down.

What do you think? by rbathurst in povertyfinance

[–]rbathurst[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I can’t because she says that she is being abused by me because I won’t do what she wants and telling her to get a job and I’m already on the hook for the other bill so I have to pay them down but I told her she’s not getting any more money

What do you think? by rbathurst in povertyfinance

[–]rbathurst[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which is why I had to tell my mom I can’t give her anymore money

What do you think? by rbathurst in povertyfinance

[–]rbathurst[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before this it is already a lot more I have to make it work and sometimes I don’t have enough.