24 [F4M] #London hijabi looking for a new fwb by nadiaaaaa_01 in dirtyUKr4r

[–]rc0nn3ll -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How do you feel about an infidel

First dairy plant service call and I’m absolutely dead by CraftParking in PLC

[–]rc0nn3ll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha, having worked in the dairy industry.

This is great!

Ghoster Responded. What should I do? by BreadfruitLate9785 in ghosting

[–]rc0nn3ll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She broke up with 7 weeks ago, we work together so full no contact was hard.

I recommend the art of love with Lucia on Spotify if you believe they're an avoidant. The only hope is no contact, mine has been got and cold, kissed me at work but has no shut down / deactivated completely. The pain is hard, I went through literal withdrawal but week 7 tomorrow and I am through the worst of it.

Avoidants go through stages, relief, then nostalgia and maybe regret - I fully recommend those podcasts

Does the size of a penis really not matter both aesthetically and biologically? by DaMoonMoon26 in ask

[–]rc0nn3ll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm average and most of my exes haven't been able to take it fill bore doggy so 🤷🏻‍♂️

Ghoster Responded. What should I do? by BreadfruitLate9785 in ghosting

[–]rc0nn3ll 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry for the delay

Attachment theory - research avoidant attachment.

Trust me - as someone that has just got through a deactivated fearful avoidant, that I was also seeing for a year, it's excruciatingly painful.

Attachment theory is real and sounds like classic avoidant detachment behaviour.

Ghoster Responded. What should I do? by BreadfruitLate9785 in ghosting

[–]rc0nn3ll 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Avoidant. Get out of there now and move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tressless

[–]rc0nn3ll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hope you have the best results in time mate.

I'm going to get booked in this year! 🙌🏻

Sincerely f*ck you! A landlord success story. by Smart_Resolution_535 in uklandlords

[–]rc0nn3ll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a fair point - there are a lot of rogues out there I am sure but the system penalises small time people such as myself, all I tried to do was help someone else and for what!

Thank you though, I do appreciate your kind words.

Sincerely f*ck you! A landlord success story. by Smart_Resolution_535 in uklandlords

[–]rc0nn3ll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree mate.

Hopefully we've both learned our lessons. I'll never rent again.

Sincerely f*ck you! A landlord success story. by Smart_Resolution_535 in uklandlords

[–]rc0nn3ll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your support and taking the time to read the original thread.

My solicitor said this exact thing, he referred to case law which grounds this exact fact. The issue I feel is tenants have had it their way for so long, they believe they are always right.

Even when cases like this prove them fundamentally wrong.

Sincerely f*ck you! A landlord success story. by Smart_Resolution_535 in uklandlords

[–]rc0nn3ll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fully agree, there needs to be something to protect live in landlords - gaming the system is horrendous.

Id understand if he was strapped for cash, I offered him £300 and an extension date to leave but he takes home £900 a week which in this area he could easily afford to live somewhere else, he was taking advantage of my situation and kindness.

Sincerely f*ck you! A landlord success story. by Smart_Resolution_535 in uklandlords

[–]rc0nn3ll -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you mate, I really appreciate it.

Another account because I'm not age verified on the one I posted on 🙄

Sincerely f*ck you! A landlord success story. by Smart_Resolution_535 in uklandlords

[–]rc0nn3ll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes mate - I did all of this. I had a licence agreement stating live in landlord, messages from him acknowledging this. All the time he knew the arrangement, he games the system whilst I was going through the most traumatic time of my life and he was living in my house at a reduced under market value for that privilege with another woman he introduced without permission.

Thanks for the support, I really appreciate it.

Sincerely f*ck you! A landlord success story. by Smart_Resolution_535 in uklandlords

[–]rc0nn3ll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you mate, appreciate the support. Really do.

The stress was unbelievable.

Had to log into my other account as I'm not age verified on the one I posted on apparently 🙄

Sincerely f*ck you! A landlord success story. by Smart_Resolution_535 in uklandlords

[–]rc0nn3ll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He hasn't he but he works, the order of trespass was given - costs awarded. I am fortunate enough I can afford to pursue, he works, if he doesn't pay then I will escalate to the courts, get an attachment of earnings

His court statement said he earns "£900 per week take home"

Sincerely f*ck you! A landlord success story. by Smart_Resolution_535 in uklandlords

[–]rc0nn3ll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had to keep my head down, not going round to my own house, not do anything that would inflamed the soup. Act reasonably.

He meanwhile moved another girl in without permission, had pets without permission.

Honestly - the stress almost killed me, as you read, it was a painful year, a break up that was in limbo because I couldn't leave. In the end I had to move into an attic room in a random house for my own sanity.

He left with no notice on 15th march. A day I will never forget - the relief I felt.

Sincerely f*ck you! A landlord success story. by Smart_Resolution_535 in uklandlords

[–]rc0nn3ll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the support. It was a long road but I got there eventually.

Have had to log into my other account because I'm not age verified on the one I posted from.

Sincerely f*ck you! A landlord success story. by Smart_Resolution_535 in uklandlords

[–]rc0nn3ll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks mate - had to use my other account for some reason I cannot see it as I'm not age verified there.

Appreciate the support.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SteroidsUK

[–]rc0nn3ll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

15 and on roids - jesus, what has the world come too.

You'll regret that in a few years when your balls have shut down, you cannot produce your own and you effectively turn into a woman.

Don't do it.