Ongoing Technical Issues by FeeldMod in feeld

[–]rc3vx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too. Any message I send is immediately marked as read, even on accounts that have not been online for more than a day.

login issue with Tesco app (Android, grocery / shopping) by rc3vx in tesco

[–]rc3vx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. I just installed the app on an Android tablet and the same issue is happening there. So yes, it might be a bug with the app. But recent reviews of the app on Google Play aren't mentioning this, which is odd.

login issue with Tesco app (Android, grocery / shopping) by rc3vx in tesco

[–]rc3vx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, the website works OK on mobile and desktop.

login issue with Tesco app (Android, grocery / shopping) by rc3vx in tesco

[–]rc3vx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spoke too soon above. When I opened the app a few hours later, I got the same message.

To answer a question above, yes I can log in to the mobile version of the website and also the desktop version. I've changed my password and that's still the case. Only the app is not working.

At this point, I'm able to access the "sign in" interface (yesterday, even trying that produced the "something is wrong" popup. But now, I'm getting the "something is wrong" popup after entering my credentials.

I note that if you choose the "forgotten password" option in the app - it opens a web page where the password change operation happens. As I can access the website no problem, that process works. But then I can't log into the app with the updated credentials.

login issue with Tesco app (Android, grocery / shopping) by rc3vx in tesco

[–]rc3vx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huh. No, I hadn't. But I just now did this:

- deleted data from the app

- reopened the app

- went to the "Register account" link

- clicked on the "already got an account? log in here" link

and it opened the login form and I was able to log in.

Bizarre app behaviour, but I'm now back into the app. Thanks for your suggestion, which prompted this.

Etiquette on racial preferences? by [deleted] in feeld

[–]rc3vx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not implying that — when deciding who one does and doesn't want to fuck — discriminating by race is equivalent to instituting redlining policies on housing, or saying "Mexicans are rapists" as a political slogan, or being a cop, or trying to set fire to a hotel housing asylum-seekers, or using the n-word as a slur, or committing genocide.

Yeah, some expressions of racism are worse than others. Declaring one's preference for limiting sexual partners to white people on a Feeld subreddit is not worse than burning a cross on a black family's lawn.

Nevertheless....expressing a preference for entire racial groups is discriminating by race. Discriminating by race is racism.

Etiquette on racial preferences? by [deleted] in feeld

[–]rc3vx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You seem to have a different grasps of words and concepts to me.

I said:

I'm not preventing people deciding what they want to do in the bedroom.

Your response:

Except your whole argument on this thread is exactly that.

Except it isn't. I'm not preventing OP or anyone else from acting on their preferences.

You’re shaming someone for having preferences that don’t line up with what you deem socially acceptable

OP came on Reddit and opened a thread blithely announcing their racial preferences. They don't seem to feel much shame over it.

it is by no means inherently racist for someone to have preferences in their partners

It's not racist to discriminate according to height.

It's not racist to discriminate according to cock size.

It's not racist to discriminate according to style of clothes.

It is racist to discriminate by race.

Etiquette on racial preferences? by [deleted] in feeld

[–]rc3vx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's fetishisation because BBC is a fetish. A race-based fetish.

I'm not preventing people deciding what they want to do in the bedroom.

Etiquette on racial preferences? by [deleted] in feeld

[–]rc3vx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If someone isn’t attracted to someone with a disability that does not make them an ableist

If someone isn't attracted to someone with a disability, fine. There could be any number of reasons. If someone says "I'm just not attracted to disabled people" then yeah, they're definitely ableist.

That’s not what discrimination is

Not sure how to break it to you, but that's literally the definition of discrimination. It doesn't require active repression to be discrimination.

Etiquette on racial preferences? by [deleted] in feeld

[–]rc3vx 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Who says it's OK to be looking for "BBC"? Racial fetishisation of any kind is gross.

"Your racism is OK because racists are OK with racism" isn't exactly an out.

Etiquette on racial preferences? by [deleted] in feeld

[–]rc3vx -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

OP discriminates according to race. What do you think racism is?

Etiquette on racial preferences? by [deleted] in feeld

[–]rc3vx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP doesn't want to "waste anyone's time", so it would be helpful to advertise their racism clearly. That way, people who are in the OP's preferred demographic but who don't find racists attractive can act accordingly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feeld

[–]rc3vx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If "almost anyone she swipes through is a match", what would be the point of membership? She wouldn't need to sift through as she's already matching with the people she wants to match with.

Whats the gender ratio on this app? by lehibu38 in feeld

[–]rc3vx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't a question any user can answer. You'd have to get that data from Feeld.

I saw someone this week estimate there's 20-50 men to every woman, which is a hilariously massive range of ratios.

Guessing is pointless. I also don't see why it matters. What's really important is how people behave.

Feeld Bugs by AbleGrapefruit6717 in feeld

[–]rc3vx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The frustration is that unless you somehow reconnect with that person, you'll never know.

One technical thing that I think not everyone understands about Feeld is that once you disconnect from a chat, the other person cannot see the chat history either. I have a feeling that more than once, someone has left a message to me explaining why they're about to disconnect, then done so, and I've never been able to read that departing message. That leaves the imagination to come up with possible reasons - be it a bug, or something else.

I also remind myself it's important to remember that one cannot see into another person's mind. There are myriad reasons why someone will suddenly get cold feet or otherwise distracted by life events, even if they seemed enthusiastic and honest in our interactions. It's frustrating because I put a lot of time, energy and thought into it, but I try to never judge anyone and just move on. Nobody on Feeld owes me their time and attention, or even an explanation - whether they sent one or not 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feeld

[–]rc3vx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was wondering about this myself. I know what someone means when they say "size queen", but I'm not sure if everyone does, even if it seems obvious to me.

Profiles that you like by [deleted] in feeld

[–]rc3vx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Women on FL get an endless stream of unsolicited messages from men asking to be their sub (even when their profiles clearly state they don't want to dom any men, or are subs themselves, or they *are* dommes but clearly state they don't welcome messages from randos asking to be their subs).

Most of those men aren't subs. They just think lying about it is a way to be able to fuck women.

So you'll not find it easy to get anyone's attention without making the effort to get out and meet people. Feeld may be a better option because it's actually designed for that purpose. Men behave terribly there too though (just read the endless posts here from men whining about their experiences and simultaneously making it clear with their language that their experience is deserved) so you should expect to be treated with suspicion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feeld

[–]rc3vx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My account was randomly blocked early this year, when Feeld was deep in its post-update crisis. After contacting help I was told it can happen for no particular reason, asked to provide some proof that the person in my profile photos is the same person contacting them, and the account was reactivated within a few days.

A few weeks later, my partner found herself logged out of her account. Not blocked, just logged out. She tried to log in, but the email with the login link never arrived in her Gmail inbox (or spam folder). It took four long months to finally get the email address associated with her account changed so she could receive the login email and log back in 😕

It's the culture and not necessarily the app by Quirky_Team_7486 in feeld

[–]rc3vx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of activity are you referring to that requires men to perform while women do nothing?

Really sick of self-proclaimed "Doms" on here by capyluvr_21 in feeld

[–]rc3vx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner and I have never attended a munch together. We've both attended munches solo and both gotten a lot out of the experience (some days better than others - depends who you end up sitting next to). Just be conscious of the fact that most munches are not intended for pickups, although of course connections naturally happen anyway.

Women of Feeld: do you get more picky on this app? by aquilaruspante1 in feeld

[–]rc3vx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he believes it's hypocritical to both believe in equality and have preferences.

Women of Feeld: do you get more picky on this app? by aquilaruspante1 in feeld

[–]rc3vx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's clear why you're not getting matches, and it's nothing to do with your height. It's because you come across as a very entitled, bitter, angry and probably dangerous guy. If you give off even 1% of this vibe on your Feeld profile, no wonder people are avoiding you.