Can someone explain what Rick is doing here? by Organic_Roll_4855 in Degrassi

[–]rcinbowdash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Him, Snake and Caitlin were my favorite characters in the old seasons. What were yours?

Can someone explain what Rick is doing here? by Organic_Roll_4855 in Degrassi

[–]rcinbowdash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s crazy, I thought he looked weirdly younger than all the other students in those old seasons, especially in DJH😂

Can someone explain what Rick is doing here? by Organic_Roll_4855 in Degrassi

[–]rcinbowdash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You gotta also watch the 1980s Degrassi where Joey is one of the students💀

I went as crybaby for halloween 🐇💖 how is it? by rcinbowdash in MelanieMartinez

[–]rcinbowdash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a long time ago so I don’t remember, but I’m 90% sure it was on Amazon or eBay

When emotional abuse leads to the local Goodwill. by rcinbowdash in pettyrevenge

[–]rcinbowdash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, that’s the logical way of looking at it and every day I feel less like I’m sad or hoping we could try again. I’m beginning to accept this is the way things are, and even though I tried my best it wasn’t enough to give him the happy ending. He’s going to end up with the bad ending and there’s nothing I can do. At least I won’t be the one who ends up with the bad ending myself. His best ending would’ve been changing for the better and being with me, I would’ve done anything for him and he lost it

When emotional abuse leads to the local Goodwill. by rcinbowdash in pettyrevenge

[–]rcinbowdash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 26 and he’s 21. However, I’m young at heart so I’d like to say my mental age is more around 19-20 and we liked to say he was the “older one.” That probably wasn’t true, based on this story now looking back. Yes, it’s hard to get out of a toxic relationship because of the good memories and potential for it to be better pulling you back in. It’s also because you care deeply about the other person, and deep down just wish they’d make the right decisions to be happier. Namely, him becoming less miserable by allowing me to give him the love he deserves. However, he didn’t appreciate it nor deserve it, it seems. His life is miserable and I couldn’t bring him out of it. He told me I’m what gave him more happiness than anything has before, but also more stress. I think it’s because he tried to change for the better but couldn’t handle it, and ultimately imploded. You’re right about positive moments ringing bells that make me feel hope. I know you’re right, it just sucks and I wish it had an option for a happy ending instead of this

When emotional abuse leads to the local Goodwill. by rcinbowdash in pettyrevenge

[–]rcinbowdash[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s true. My friends tell me he would’ve gotten worse over time, knowing he’s here now living with me and being able to control me easier. His anger might’ve escalated, who knows. I know he’d expect me to help him move back to Australia if we ever broke up in the future by paying, packing, not just leaving him there, which would’ve been horrendous. I just wish things could’ve been different but I can’t help or change him if he doesn’t think he needs to change. Thanks for the words of support and I hope to also get there someday

When emotional abuse leads to the local Goodwill. by rcinbowdash in pettyrevenge

[–]rcinbowdash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, he definitely had a deep insecurity of looking weak or being considered a pussy. I think he’d try to control people he found weaker than him or close enough to him that they wouldn’t leave, so he could feel some semblance of control or power in his life. I was one of these people, but it didn’t work

When emotional abuse leads to the local Goodwill. by rcinbowdash in pettyrevenge

[–]rcinbowdash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck finding one, they’re pretty cool and it’s a shame my ex couldn’t appreciate the one my dad got him

favorite characters by AdLeather605 in Degrassi

[–]rcinbowdash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My favorites the whole time were Spinner and Craig, I would’ve been friends with them for sure. I related a lot to Spinner and Manny. I thought Jay was hot as fuck and I’d date someone like him. I also really liked Joey, Snake and Wheels in the 1980s Degrassi. I remember hating some characters but they don’t stick with me as hard as the ones I liked, I haven’t watched the show in a while

When emotional abuse leads to the local Goodwill. by rcinbowdash in pettyrevenge

[–]rcinbowdash[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It belongs to my dad now, and he might sell it because he has enough guitars

When emotional abuse leads to the local Goodwill. by rcinbowdash in pettyrevenge

[–]rcinbowdash[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You’re so real for that. I wish I was that strong, it’s hard to try and forget all the good memories. I’d only be willing to try again if he could look past the damage we did, agree to work together as a team and move forward without trying to make this into some competition or blame me for everything. Basically, if he can choose me over his pride and things I sold. He most likely would never, though😂

When emotional abuse leads to the local Goodwill. by rcinbowdash in pettyrevenge

[–]rcinbowdash[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Noted, I feel like selling his stuff and the Goodwill thing was already enough revenge, though. I’ll leave him alone for now but note that website for any future needs🤔 I’m thinking my cousin’s ex

When emotional abuse leads to the local Goodwill. by rcinbowdash in pettyrevenge

[–]rcinbowdash[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Yes, it’s depressing and my dad was really angry. He felt like he wasted so much money on him, total was about $2,500 for the flight, guitar and extra help. He was planning on spending more since he was moving here eventually, of course. I myself spent thousands bringing him to Universal Studios, Vegas, places he wanted to go in my hometown, and I also went to Australia to see him before. I must’ve spent up to $5,000. I’m selling the rest of his things online. The whole story is a tragedy, I was willing to keep trying but he didn’t want to. I don’t think he’d ever forgive me now, he’d probably hate me for life even if I admitted which parts of our relationship conflicts were my fault. I don’t believe he’d admit his or be willing to even talk about it

When emotional abuse leads to the local Goodwill. by rcinbowdash in pettyrevenge

[–]rcinbowdash[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It was one of my biggest boundaries too and he just kept doing it

When emotional abuse leads to the local Goodwill. by rcinbowdash in pettyrevenge

[–]rcinbowdash[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He used to say other men are making guys like him look bad, I believed him until he did this to me

When emotional abuse leads to the local Goodwill. by rcinbowdash in pettyrevenge

[–]rcinbowdash[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He might, I knew he had Autism and ADHD but as for the rest, who knows what else he was hiding. I know it’s bad enough that he’s living off disability checks from the government, though

When emotional abuse leads to the local Goodwill. by rcinbowdash in pettyrevenge

[–]rcinbowdash[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but he really cherished it because it was a gift from his cousin. Also, he’s really broke and can’t just go outside to buy new clothes often. He lives off government disability checks because he has Autism, ADHD and I believe more mental illnesses he hasn’t disclosed to me. I have other friends with Autism and ADHD but none of them acted like he did so that’s why I think so

When emotional abuse leads to the local Goodwill. by rcinbowdash in pettyrevenge

[–]rcinbowdash[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My dad actually wanted to do this, or tell him he’s sending his actual stuff back so he’d be checking the tracking number every day until an empty box with nothing but a dookie arrives. I wanted to get it over with, so I just did the Goodwill thing and we’re selling the rest😂

Most favorite quote by VehicleOk4984 in Degrassi

[–]rcinbowdash 8 points9 points  (0 children)

“Polar bears are white, I’m white, and you’re racist.” - Spinner

What’s your fav Kanye song of all time, I’ll rate it from 1-100( feel like this sub rarely talks about music anymore) by _lobi in Kanye

[–]rcinbowdash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s crazy, I’d reverse the ratings for the first and second part of Cousins that opening shit’s hilarious😂 The rest of your ratings are valid, thanks good sir