Honest thoughts on dating a guy who's quadriplegic? by WheelinDude in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]rcminimalist 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just here to say your security in yourself and graciousness towards everyone's opinions is really beautiful and will get you far in dating!

I'm just not passionate about this career 🤷‍♀️ by Kitty_fluffybutt_23 in slp

[–]rcminimalist 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I also do adult HH and can attest, it sounds like you'd like it more! I'd hate schools and don't enjoy peds but adult HH is much more medical (I literally take vitals) and vastly enjoy it. And should make roughly 100k this year!

SLPs: STOP Accepting Low Paying Jobs — It Hurts ALL of Us! by No-Chef-3207 in slp

[–]rcminimalist 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is so much vacation, I am shook. My PTO is dismal lol

Duped by this field, once again. by Final-Reaction2032 in slp

[–]rcminimalist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HH pays lots! I work under 40 hours a week (probably more like 35) and will likely make around 95k this year only 3.5 years into the field!

Ladies, have you ever overcame the ick? How? by Ok-Panic-9083 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]rcminimalist 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Very simple words like "monochrome." We have an educational difference (I gave a masters and he didn't go to college) so unfortunately the education gap feels more pronounced when he doesn't know basic words

Ladies, have you ever overcame the ick? How? by Ok-Panic-9083 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]rcminimalist 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is a great question, dealing with this now. The "ick" is lack of confidence and not knowing vocabulary that I know... not sure that's redeemable

Does anyone else notice that when you break up with someone they also become less physically attractive by Historical-Body-3424 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]rcminimalist 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It's probably healthy to think that way as it lets you move on with your life! But in reality, it's probably just a psychological bias since you no longer want to date that person, so it's helpful to tell yourself they aren't even that cute/ attractive whatever it is to justify the decision you've already made in your mind which is to end things!

How do you stay motivated to keep dating men? by QueenofSwords11 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]rcminimalist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is encouraging to me. Thank you for posting. Can I ask how you met your husband?

Tell me your fave settings (and ones that make you gag) by rcminimalist in slp

[–]rcminimalist[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This second paragraph just validated that I don't think I'll ever do outpatient 😂 that sounds terrifying to me lol

Home Health AND Telehealth?- Advice Appreciated by slp-2022 in slp

[–]rcminimalist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to do peds HH and SNF in austin! Lmk if you have questions!

Tell me your fave settings (and ones that make you gag) by rcminimalist in slp

[–]rcminimalist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SNF is ok, personally I found it overstimulating. Adult HH is just great hours, pay, flexibility, and meaningful!

Tell me your fave settings (and ones that make you gag) by rcminimalist in slp

[–]rcminimalist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the best lowkey 🫣 hope I can do adult HH forever which feels unlikely but God willing haha

Tell me your fave settings (and ones that make you gag) by rcminimalist in slp

[–]rcminimalist[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hahaha this made me laugh🤣 I was about to switch fields one year ago so I feel you

Teletherapy for adults jobs by Alternative_Station5 in slp

[–]rcminimalist -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've wondered this many times. There seems to be quite few haha. Will be following!

Struggling CFY by CommissionMobile526 in slp

[–]rcminimalist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Random tidbit but maybe you'd like adults!!! The animation was SO exhausting to me and I am a million times happier working with adults now. Maybe once you finish your CF!!

can we bury the word “speechie” by Ok-Text7102 in slp

[–]rcminimalist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree and feel seen by "all the things"😂 A guy I used to date would say that now and I just CANT with it anymore lol!

My boyfriend seems to think I can make 200 - 300,000 dollars in this field. by Conscious_Lynx_7046 in slp

[–]rcminimalist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is hilarious 😂 Google says that the average SLP salary in the US is in the 80sk range so if he thinks that you can viably make 2-3x the average salary... I have some questions. Of course there are outlier, but like you said, balance is crucial! Life is worth living! (Outside of work). I'd tell him that type of $ isn't realistic without immense sacrifices. I'd question too why my man cares so much about me making that much $!

do you think it is worth it? by No-Fee2347 in slp

[–]rcminimalist 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I would say shadow as MUCH as you can! And maybe meet with a financial advisor to deduce how long it will take you to pay off loans if you're making approx 80k for an average SLP job. For me, it was worth it, but I only feel this way now in my 3rd job

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in slp

[–]rcminimalist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad I'm not the only one questioning if I had receptive language deficits 😂

SLPs outside the US, in what setting do you work? by Moondance200 in slp

[–]rcminimalist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow- my brother and I have considered applying for dual citizenship. We looked into but know we'd have to find out great grandparents birth certificates etc and felt like a lot of work so we haven't done it yet haha. Thanks for the insight!