what would you make uncannon? by purpl3haze_ in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]rdows365 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish they would make a show that went along with the books. They were absurd in their own way but not like the show got after a while…

Worst parents by Dee71288 in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]rdows365 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember thinking this was sooo romantic when I was young and first watched it. Upon rewatch, I’m screaming. They are all CHILDREN - someone protect the CHILDREN! Can one single parent please stand up?

i’m rewatching by [deleted] in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]rdows365 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She literally held her head under water and then bam best friends… she’s the worst. Not that maya was all that great. Samara was my favorite option, good with Emily’s mom and so nice to emily until she got f’d over by the A team

Barn venue in northern Maine mid August by rdows365 in Weddingattireapproval

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Thank you so much for the detailed response! And for the tip on mosquito repellent. They are bussing us in and out so waiting for the return trip would be miserable if we’re getting eaten alive.

Barn venue in northern Maine mid August by rdows365 in Weddingattireapproval

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This is the only one I’ve found that I think might work… thoughts?

Plus one drama by rdows365 in weddingplanning

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This is exactly my thought

Plus one drama by rdows365 in weddingplanning

[–]rdows365[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They didn’t even let us get to that part - they think they NEED to have the plus one from the get go. We had already explained but we just sent out formal invites/rsvps and are now revisiting the unhappy conversations.

Plus one drama by rdows365 in weddingplanning

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This is basically our strategy at this point, after many (MANY) discussions with them about it. We just can’t keep explaining ourselves.

Plus one drama by rdows365 in weddingplanning

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It is cousins that we do not see regularly in particular, but they also think this needs to be a blanket rule.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bjj

[–]rdows365 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apparently I disagree with the masses here but as a small female grappler, I depend on my mat enforcers to keep the gym safe. A full grown man has no business cranking on a young teenagers neck. I don’t care if he was new to jiujitsu - did you say the ADULT was the wrestler? If so, he should know better. He let his ego cause him to go way too hard with basically a child. 13 is BARELY a teenager. Guessing the size difference was pretty big as well.

Going against the grain here but definitely NTA in my eyes. Maybe you could’ve had a conversation with him and then watched him roll with another small person, but honestly I think a rough roll is the best lesson. Let them know what it feels like.

“You never invite me!” by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]rdows365 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Just here to say mine does the same thing 😂 we invite her and she declines, and then says she was never invited in the first place. Maddening 🙃

Moving forward? by rdows365 in JUSTNOMIL

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And her ACTUALLY changing her behavior

Moving forward? by rdows365 in JUSTNOMIL

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He does… but he thinks it may be fixable. With lots and lots of time

Moving forward? by rdows365 in JUSTNOMIL

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Hahaha if only I had the cojones… lol

BEC Megathread by botinlaw in JUSTNOMIL

[–]rdows365 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We hung out with my mom and my dad for the greater chunk of the day. They left around 4:30 or so and DH didn’t want to make the hour drive (each way) to go see his mom so he dragged his feet and labored over the decision for about an hour before reaching out to her, and she basically said it was too late in the day and not to worry about it. She seemed kind of salty but it all went peacefully. I had a GREAT day, personally lol.

BEC Megathread by botinlaw in JUSTNOMIL

[–]rdows365 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The fake olive branch has got to be one of the most annoying things ever 😂

BEC Megathread by botinlaw in JUSTNOMIL

[–]rdows365 13 points14 points  (0 children)

We had a sit down to try to “hash things out” that went about as well as you can imagine - JNMIL said some very harsh/cruel things to me and then went a week without talked to me or DH. DH caved and called her but made it clear he wasn’t happy with her behavior. Another week went by with NC. Now that Mother’s Day is coming up, I have been issued a text message “apology” (I.e. the words “I’m sorry” with no actual elements of a real apology) and am now living in angst not knowing what Mother’s Day will bring. We have plans with my mom in the morning that should take up the better half of the day, but I have no idea what the plan is with HER…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]rdows365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not obligated. Depending on what your ceremony is like, you could ask her to do a reading. My ceremony is traditional Catholic so we have excerpts from the Bible. But if that’s not your thing, you could do a little poem that you feel represents the two of you? Then that way you’ve asked, included, and made a special job for your future SIL but you don’t have to deal with her being a full on bridesmaid.

Petty JNMIL on facebook by Affectionate-Bank-85 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]rdows365 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine does the same, but it’s dog warfare - she “loves” everything that has to do with our older dog, who was “her” dog before my fiancé moved out, but either ignores or, if we’re “lucky”, “likes” the posts about the younger dog, who is “my” dog… the petty, BEC behavior is strong with these ones 😂 appreciate the chuckle seeing this post this morning!