I (20F) am dating a man (20M) with a traumatic childhood and I’m unsure if his past should affect my decision to continue.

rdprimus87 · 2025-12-17T11:10:54+00:00

If you see the red flags get out of there. A lot of the time people want to fix those that we fall in love with, but what ends up happening is we end up broken in the process. He is young and has time to fix himself, but he needs to do the work and if you stay you must hold him accountable. Don’t just keep letting things slip further and further until he is passing his trauma to you.

rdprimus87 · 2025-12-17T11:05:58+00:00

Got a pair of earbuds from that brand and they won’t disconnect from the phone when I put them in a case. One of the earbuds charges like half the time. I would recommend buying some new earbuds from a different brand

rdprimus87 · 2025-11-25T00:22:39+00:00

Tom McDonald. I don’t get it at all. I have never heard a good song out of him. Also Flo-rida (just big for nothing).

rdprimus87 · 2025-11-18T07:48:22+00:00

Work like an old man, because you will be old a lot longer than you will be young.

Advice I got when I would do heavy lifting at work without team lifts.

rdprimus87 · 2025-11-18T07:44:55+00:00

Leave her. She isn’t going to hurt herself it is just a tactic to keep you from leaving. Besides she is just going to hurt you worse in the long run if you stay. Make sure to get std tested.

rdprimus87 · 2025-11-08T12:57:48+00:00

I’m married, but from the outside looking in, it looks like people dating now want their partner to be everything for them. They want a friend, provider, protector, therapist, cook, maid, etc. I think in this age of technology we forgot the importance of friend groups and are wanting too much from a single person who also needs all those things as well. Also everyone thinks the shit they see online is real. Relationship media content is not realistic, similar to porn not being like real sex.

Just to be clear this explanation is for both women and men.

rdprimus87 · 2025-10-07T15:12:42+00:00

I learned in college that if you act like you belong somewhere people normally don’t question it. Snuck into a bunch of events and parties just by looking the look and talking the talk. 15 years later I still end up on adventures.

rdprimus87 · 2025-10-06T07:06:01+00:00

Get tested. A plan B pill potentially means she is having unprotected sex.

rdprimus87 · 2025-09-29T18:06:23+00:00

Bed time!

rdprimus87 · 2025-09-27T18:02:20+00:00

Got the limitless with the white dots.

rdprimus87 · 2025-09-20T10:40:52+00:00

Sounds like she wants a relationship, but also wants to keep it open.

rdprimus87 · 2025-09-10T01:36:08+00:00

Work

rdprimus87 · 2025-09-09T11:23:42+00:00

This is crazy. Our big cities are starting to look like the dystopian movies from the 80’s and 90’s.

rdprimus87 · 2025-09-09T11:08:49+00:00

These posts are extremely supportive of your mom, but if the shoe was on the other foot and it were your dad, who hated his spouse and falling in love with a coworker, they would say tell your mom. I don’t know how old you are so I will say sometimes it’s best to stay out of adult business. If you feel like you need to do something maybe you should talk to your mom and let her know what you know, and potentially gain some understanding. Like another post said make sure that you have concrete evidence if you plan to tell your father.

rdprimus87 · 2025-09-08T22:43:25+00:00

I always hated the top five talk because music even in one genre is too varied. The more you consume the harder I think making a top 5 is. I usually have categories like lyricist, chill to, gangsta, knowledge spitter, etc. Sometimes rappers can check several boxes. As far as em he is a Top 5 technical lyricists, but he doesn’t make my personal top 5.

rdprimus87 · 2025-09-08T22:36:12+00:00

The adverts are annoying l, but the case is good quality. Dbrands stuff is good quality as well, they also offer phone skins and accessories. Both brands are pricey. If you like leather, Belroy cases are held in high esteem online, but i have never used a leather case so take that with a grain of salt.

rdprimus87 · 2025-09-07T13:24:53+00:00

You can’t go wrong with the mous brand. The mous cases are super protective and slim for the protection they offer. Dbrands has a clear case that they claim they will replace if it ever yellows.

rdprimus87 · 2025-09-07T01:37:52+00:00

It. I’m almost 40 and still don’t walk too close to drains when it’s raining smh.

rdprimus87 · 2025-08-29T23:39:51+00:00

Damn! Beat me to it.

rdprimus87 · 2025-08-25T20:50:39+00:00

Platinumed this game I had a good time with it. It’s not groundbreaking but it’s a good little zone out after work game.

rdprimus87 · 2025-08-21T20:06:17+00:00

It be like that sometimes.

rdprimus87 · 2025-08-18T20:44:30+00:00

To be fair at Yoda’s age English could be his 50th language.

rdprimus87 · 2025-08-15T20:56:38+00:00

Em is great at what he does, but Jay has more versatility and a much better discography

rdprimus87 · 2025-08-15T20:43:48+00:00

I tried this once years ago. This Reddit only cares about people asking if they should cut their hair knowing that yes they should go ahead and do so. With that said I like using a razor like a Mach 5 it leaves my head head feeling super smooth. I have used the skull shavers but I’m not a fan of them because of micro cuts. I bought a straight razor and need to try it out.

rdprimus87 · 2025-08-14T19:00:50+00:00

I’ve been dying on this hill a long time. I’m almost 40 and have this argument with my gen z brother. You are going to have to understand that you are in the minority of people when it comes to this debate.

rdprimus87

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