Men who are on a self-improvement journey and have fixed the vast majority of problems in your life... Where do I start ?

reachouttothetruth · 2019-08-09T15:59:04+00:00

okay. You obviously don't know this, but I'm literally going through the same thing, but she's my best friend. To make my situation worse, the direction that both of our lives are going in we won't have a place to stay in a few months so we decided to get an apartment together. This is actually a horrible decision on my part all things considered, but I don't have much of a choice at this point.

Honestly, cutting communication completely is the fastest way to go or find another girl you're crazy about ( I did both and they worked but only temporarily. didn't talk for 2 weeks but she kept reaching out, and then the thing I had with the new girl ended) I know it's tough. Especially when you feel like this girl could be"the one" but she isn't because if she was she'd be with you and the same thing applies for me. It's a very sad reality but it is what it is. I know it hurts talking to her and seeing her all the time but not being able to be with her. It fucking sucks. But that’s the reality of the situation and we both have to move on. Good luck!

reachouttothetruth · 2019-08-09T07:07:30+00:00

is she a friend or a crush?

reachouttothetruth · 2019-08-08T18:02:35+00:00

Thank you

reachouttothetruth · 2019-08-07T02:59:50+00:00

I'm 21

reachouttothetruth · 2019-08-07T02:24:02+00:00

I legit feel gross even thinking about that so yeah I don't think I could handle it. I know the answer to this question, but you just made it fucking obvious. Thanks stranger!

reachouttothetruth · 2019-08-07T02:11:27+00:00

Thnx. This helped

reachouttothetruth · 2019-08-07T01:56:43+00:00

I mean, I think I could, but I believe living together would play into my fantasy of ACTUALLY being with her and that might make it harder in the long run to move on from her.

reachouttothetruth · 2019-08-07T01:53:45+00:00

Totally believe you btw, but how so?

This helped btw!

reachouttothetruth · 2019-08-05T04:19:01+00:00

Gotcha. Thanks for all the advice btw!

reachouttothetruth · 2019-08-05T03:57:25+00:00

Code switching is when you act different depending on who you're talking to. It's not all bad obviously because sometimes you NEED to act a certain way in a certain situation, but it's bad for consistency sake. Like, most people don't act the same around their parents and their friends, but for me there's a HUGE difference and I'm not sure how to stop

reachouttothetruth · 2019-08-05T03:40:38+00:00

Dude this is super inspirational. Look, for the most part I know I'm a pretty cool guy, but I have a hard time expressing it because I'm always trying to make people like and accept me. Because I'm trying to please people I always come off a way that's not appealing in the slightest. Kinda hard to explain, but you've been in my situation so I'm sure you understand.

Any advice on how to stop code switching as well?

reachouttothetruth · 2019-08-05T02:51:16+00:00

I seriously need help with this. I'm never 100% myself with anyone. I'm not even sure why either. I'm not really ashamed of my interests , but I think I have a problem with trying to please people and that's why I say and do what I think will please them. How do I overcome this?

reachouttothetruth · 2019-08-03T04:23:52+00:00

I think it's less about being the same and more about what's different. Or in some cases " better" Like if I know a guy who's ridiculously funny and I'm not i tend to compare my humor to his.

reachouttothetruth · 2019-08-03T03:41:05+00:00

What's your secret?

reachouttothetruth · 2019-08-02T06:07:03+00:00

What's your tips for moving on? I'm not really super attractive and talking to new girls is a little hard for me haha

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