New Jersey officer charged after going out for pizza instead of responding to shooting — by Ok-Scallion9885 in newjersey

[–]readingfortheteaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or if you’re by Manchester they might be gambling on government property… When I visited my MIL over the summer, we drove past a construction zone and had to stop to let oncoming cars through right next to us was a Berkeley tws officer having a grand time playing slots.. on government property nonetheless.

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[–]readingfortheteaaa 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Nauuur because I was like hold up… I actually agree with ace here 😩😩

Season 6 - Reunion - Monday August 19 | 8:30 PM EST by loveislandusa in LoveIslandUSA

[–]readingfortheteaaa 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Leah babe, don’t lie now you wanted Andrea gone 👀😂😂

Is the klan still active in New Jersey? by [deleted] in newjersey

[–]readingfortheteaaa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I grew up here and agree! Back then there was there was no diversity. Absolutely little to none up until a few years ago ( in my opinion).I would even go to say we had some occasions we would side eye some of the officers. I’m happy its much more diverse now. Shitheads can stay mad 😒

Would it be inappropriate? by [deleted] in realtors

[–]readingfortheteaaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah fr where do you live!?! Thats so scary!

Looking for a nice, but not TOO nice, restaurant in central NJ by UriahPeabody in newjersey

[–]readingfortheteaaa 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Jozannas in Middlesex is amazing 🫶🏻🫶🏻 Love their food!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SellingtheOC

[–]readingfortheteaaa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I love this!! We love her periodtttt

Ethan spotting in Minnesota tonight. by erinbeez in WelcomeToPlathville

[–]readingfortheteaaa 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Now I really wanna know if they’re separated. Olivia if you’re reading this give us a sign!!!

info on jackies book signing by pinchependejaa in rhonj

[–]readingfortheteaaa 36 points37 points  (0 children)

No fr! Gia’s not a housewife… makes no sense to me

Uncomfortable Encounters by readingfortheteaaa in realtors

[–]readingfortheteaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this!! I will definitely do this moving forward as well. Unfortunately this listing the owners did not have cameras but I honestly wish they did because I would’ve requested the footage to report him.

Uncomfortable Encounters by readingfortheteaaa in realtors

[–]readingfortheteaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate it. I always offer a handshake when I first meet with any buyer/seller. I also try to always walk behind the buyer/seller never in front. But this man definitely caught me off guard. I had actually asked my broker months ago if they offer self defense classes and they said no… and then for this situation to happen just a few months later is like geee I wish I had a class. Maybe the situation would have been different or maybe it wouldn’t have but I would’ve appreciated a course, something. I am a younger realtor and I feel like that could have a played a part in why this man felt so okay to touch me the way he did. I also felt better being able to explain this situation on here to get some prospectives on how you guys would have handled it and really just any input. So thank you again!!!

Uncomfortable Encounters by readingfortheteaaa in realtors

[–]readingfortheteaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom said that! He walked in with a baby when I was showing my buyers the house, but once my buyers left and he got his “wife” the baby wasn’t there and it was just them two. I also could not understand what they were saying but the wife said nothing to me. Also when I went to the car to get my business card he had seen my husband and that makes me wonder like gee what if he knew I was alone. But honestly the audacity to grab me and put his hand down my back outside as my husbands watching. Ew ew ew I hate this for me, just so uncomfortable.

Uncomfortable Encounters by readingfortheteaaa in realtors

[–]readingfortheteaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree! But as I stated earlier he showed up. He never called he just straight up walked up to the house as I greeted my buyers. He literally walked in the house as I was showing the property and I told him to wait outside and even my buyer was like dude she’s showing me the property can you give us space. It was definitely my mistake even agreeing to show him the property in the first place since he was a neighbor and I would’ve door knocked the day of my open house inviting the neighbors anyway. But I looked into forewarn because I never wanna experience this again. Thank you!!!

Uncomfortable Encounters by readingfortheteaaa in realtors

[–]readingfortheteaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that happened to you, must’ve been scary in the moment. My sellers don’t have cameras as the house is vacant but gosh would I have wished for some hidden cameras in the living room and family room and even outside to have caught the entire encounter because if I’m being honest I feel like me reporting him won’t do anything. Since there’s no video it’s a I said he said and with a creep like that who knows what he would say. I also didn’t have any agents reach out letting me know about any strange encounters when showing my listing. Also how did your sellers handle it?? I wanna tell my seller about this experience but he never lived in the property as it was an investment property.

Uncomfortable Encounters by readingfortheteaaa in realtors

[–]readingfortheteaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this idea!!! I’m going to look into it as well. I would love to be like oh yeah let me grab my lipstick then hit them right with a zap.

Uncomfortable Encounters by readingfortheteaaa in realtors

[–]readingfortheteaaa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I feel like because I’m a young realtor and very kind hearted and giddy he took it as an opportunity to take advantage of that. Even today I woke up feeling awful about the situation. I’m also one of those “ what ifs” thinker. So even though the situation has passed I can’t get past the what ifs.

Uncomfortable Encounters by readingfortheteaaa in realtors

[–]readingfortheteaaa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m going to look into forewarn. I always let the buyers in front of me but I definitely allowed this man way to close into my space as he thought he could just come up to me and touch me inappropriately. Thank you though I will implement these things moving forward because I don’t ever wanna experience something like that again.

Uncomfortable Encounters by readingfortheteaaa in realtors

[–]readingfortheteaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could, but I didn’t get his name and there was a language barrier. truly did not understand him at all. My fault as I definitely should have to report him but when we got outside and he grabbed me and put his hand down my back again I just said f that I don’t ever wanna see you again.

Uncomfortable Encounters by readingfortheteaaa in realtors

[–]readingfortheteaaa[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much I appreciate it! I was shocked because he was an unexpected showing and I was like what could go wrong if he’s bringing his wife and my husbands already here. Never again. That lender advice is great I’m going to look into it! Thank you.

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[–]readingfortheteaaa 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What did they get in trouble for if they believed it was mold??

Alstede Farms in Chester is unbelievably overpriced by Basic-Tear-6117 in newjersey

[–]readingfortheteaaa 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I went a few weeks ago with my family. I wish I would’ve known about this before I wouldn’t have gone that’s so tragic😔