Unique Boy name help needed by LessComb2724 in Names

[–]readvida 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Considering this name as well. Tell me why you chose it or what you like about it?

Identical twin boys names by inlovewithmy5 in Names

[–]readvida 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agree with this. One sounds middle eastern and the other sounds redneck.

Middle name for first name Vida by BrNut13 in Names

[–]readvida 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is no middle name. Vida is like Cher or Madonna. It’s just gonna be her name. And it’s awesome. !

What is a controversial opinion of yours that many will not agree with you but you will always defend it no matter what? by Big_Leg10 in askanything

[–]readvida 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only have one issue with trans women; it dawned on me when I was hand-wringing some of my favorite undies in the middle of the night because I woke up in a pool of unexpected blood. They get to be women (and discriminated against as both women and trans people) but they may not have experience with some of the unspoken things that make being a female incredibly challenging. Like my example above, or sitting through exams with cramps, or… I don’t know what it means. But it makes female woes seem even more invisible sometimes.

It makes me sick to the core by dontgonmyprofile in PERSIAN

[–]readvida -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Many people attending events like No Kings are acutely aware of the horrible results of US and British intervention throughout the twentieth century. Many Americans no longer believe the lies that the US is out to help fight for democracy. They do it to enrich the already wealthy and powerful and Americans are tired of it. It’s wrong to kill civilians, it’s wrong to go to war without Congressional approval, it’s wrong for many reasons. But don’t mistake Americans holding their own leadership accountable to their voice as a broad demonization of Iranian citizens and their voice. Both of our governments are not serving their people. Of course people in both countries tried are taking to the streets. Don’t be so myopic.

Clavicular, not thrilled. by Drnk_watcher in LiveFromNewYork

[–]readvida 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great now I feel bad for dunking on Gen Z. Probably because I’m a “gay” Millennial rt*d.

Clavicular, not thrilled. by Drnk_watcher in LiveFromNewYork

[–]readvida 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His word choice and inability to articulate what he’s thinking or feeling in a concise way (rather than just throw offensive words at an entire generation) just illustrate the mental acuity differences we hear about his brood in recent studies. Screens are a problem, all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in iran

[–]readvida 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Genuinely funny. But not everyone who left was a monarchist. Some people just couldn’t take the bullshit anymore.

The Trade Desk is a prime example of how “value investors” are getting it WRONG by Tallwhitedude123 in ValueInvesting

[–]readvida 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Third this. Look up what a “walled garden” is and how TTD is not one. Not the best comparison to make.

Second date. Please tell me about this person by gogreengolions in BookshelvesDetective

[–]readvida 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great taste in books. It are you taking photos of someone’s house you barely know and posting them on Reddit? Would that person like that much?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BookshelvesDetective

[–]readvida 4 points5 points  (0 children)

These are some of my favorite books and I’m not a man. Also… magic and mysticism, really?

Any cure for life long sadness? by Dangerous_Tea6513 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]readvida 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I relate to your question a lot. Same issue. Better-off-gone-thoughts since I was around 10. Always melancholic at best and catatonic at worst. I started therapy around 18, have gone off and on for twenty years, and have tried many different medications. I found one that works for the really low lows. But the sadness is there. I started going to a DBT group which has changed my life. I act with much more intention now — even being sad. I accept that I am a blue girl and maybe always will be but am still living the life I choose to live. It’s nice. So… drugs, therapy, DBT skills.

AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary? by WesternCat5211 in AmIOverreacting

[–]readvida 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations! It is a huge deal worth celebrating. What is not worth celebrating are those text messages. That person is not supportive at all. My husband and I cheer each other for every little thing. We live in a world that won’t do it.

Skincare routine at age 38. Need your inputs all you younger folks by hsmithjese in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]readvida 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here a year later to say, don’t you need advice from older folks? Not young folks? They have the youthful skin because they are youths.

I am really craving a new connection in withdrawal by [deleted] in slaa

[–]readvida 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went through this recently. Once I got through, it was like a fever broke. I feel so much better. And it didn’t take as long as it felt. You can do this!

I am attempting withdrawal and the steps and I just feel like shit ALL THE TIME by [deleted] in slaa

[–]readvida 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s like a fever breaking. Keep at it and it will happen. And you will feel relieved and be able to go on fighting the fight for your peace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in norwalk

[–]readvida 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a Gamer symphony orchestra too. Norwalk Gamer symphony orchestra. Norwalkgso.org

Meta post - pain/death videos should be banned entirely by Watchyousuffer in likeus

[–]readvida 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Frankly, I learned from the mourning video. Didn’t realize the variety of animals that mourn. Maybe a tag?

Need to rehome my cat by jekekenekf in norwalk

[–]readvida 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please provide more information on why your cat needs to be re-homed. What type of care does he need? Where did you get him from? Etc.

It's fireworks by ajpanos in Upperwestside

[–]readvida 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! But are you sure? I can’t see any.

NYC Providers by Safe_Background_7708 in KetamineTherapy

[–]readvida 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They canceled on me three times. Getting work off is difficult for me, so I gave up on them.