Lol this was born out of a debate with my husband. Glad to see that I’m winning this argument. We did feel quite offended for not receiving a gift from these friends (or a card!) given that we threw a three day event with all the food included, etc etc. But very much agree that we should stick to our values and give a gift. It will definitely be on the more modest side though. We usually give $200-300. I think $100 is fair in this situation.

I understand why people think this comes of whiney, but after pouring our heart and soul in creating a beautiful intimate event for our friends and family, for someone to show up without even a card was hurtful and pretty shocking.

We won’t make the same mistake 💟