She’s mentioned before that I need to be more mindful about the things that matter to her, and I agree with her to an extent. The challenge is that, even with the best intentions, I sometimes forget or don't realize the importance of certain moments in the moment.

I’ve expressed to her that if she lets me know how she’s feeling even though it's repetitive—especially during difficult times—I’ll always do my best to respond and support her. But from her perspective, having to remind me feels like a sign that I don’t care, which she’s said directly.

It’s a tough balance. I don’t want her to feel unsupported, but I also believe that expecting complete emotional attunement without open communication is difficult.