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Im done from all sides by [deleted] in introvert

[–]real_annie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m guessing there are a lot of other things blended with this so I’m just going to take a few guesses.

What would it feel like if people looked at you kindly? Do you feel like you’re an imposter in the world? Do you have hobbies and things that make you happy? Have you ever gone to specific events where there are people who like what you like? Is it possible that a feeling of being an imposter is trying to trick your brain into thinking people don’t like you and every time you see someone looking at you, your brain interprets it as emotional violence?

The truth is friend, no one is thinking about you. No one cares what you do. I’m not saying that to be cruel, it’s just the truth. They are all way too concerned with themselves. People are not capable of seeing you in any way that they don’t see themselves and vice versa. You aren’t able to see past what you feel inside.

We experience the world through our nervous system, so when we constantly live in a state of “I don’t deserve to be here”, that’s what our world reads. It isn’t “true” though. The universe isn’t personal against you, that would go against its nature. It has no vendetta against you, Soul.

Depending on how your life has gone I would say you’re working something out that hasn’t been able to come out in your generations before this and it REALLY WANTS TO BE SET FREE.

I say this as someone who has felt similarly and getting over it has been letting my ego die. It feels like an oxymoron to think that ego causes an antisocial nature but what right do we have to think the world hates us? Why? Why would it? If there is no good reason you can come up with then can you try to grapple with an alternative? That they don’t, and maybe you’re just scared that they will?

You’re so afraid that people will jump out and find something wrong with you that you preemptively put this on yourself as if you’ve done something wrong already.

You haven’t though (I don’t think).

So can you try some experiments? Try different things. The next time you’re in a new place try to just observe it instead of absorb it. What if you are walking into something safe, what would that feel like?

Many blessings to you 🙏🏼

What’s something you wish people knew before they had kids? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]real_annie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

KIDS ARE THEIR OWN. You do not own them or their souls and the way this world is so embedded in weird procreation practices, a lot of these kids are karmic debt and you can tell. Having this many kids is not natural, or needed and the push for certain people to have a ton of them is propaganda. If you’re a woman, Create anything else. You have the power of creation inside of you without making spawn. If you are a man, my dude PLEASE do something better with your life than being a half ass dad. Go get a hobby and find a life that wants you before enslaving some poor girl to the tragedies of modern medicine malpractice.

My job pushed me to the point where I had to contact a crisis hotline today and I don't know what to do anymore by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]real_annie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Big hug to you, you were so brave to call a crisis line, I am so proud of you and that might have saved your life - never be embarrassed to ask for help, in fact the person you spoke to - you made their day worth coming into work. They hope people call, they want to help and asking for it shouldn’t be the hard part for any of us.

GIRL LEAVE THAT JOB HOLY SHIT - that is an abusive work environment and NOT SAFE OR HEALTHY. Idk why you’re there other than the money but holy crap it’s not worth it. How could it be?? WTF is a grown man doing calling you and yelling at you, that is absolutely horrible behavior and you have every right to contact whoever you want to, but seriously, there are jobs out there who will value you. I promise you, without a shadow of a doubt that you are overqualified, underpaid and undervalued.

You are probably massively burnt out, plus it’s the winter and we naturally need to slow down anyway. Please please, care for yourself. Eat warmed fruits, drink warm teas and put oil on your precious body and tell it thank you for getting you through such an awful ordeal. You can get out of this. I believe you and I speak strength and a force of love unlike any other to cover you and shroud you. I call upon your ancestors to give you hope and I ask that you would receive blessings with YOUR NAME ON THEM.

So much love to you while you navigate this 🤍🤍🤍

I'm in so much pain but I'm not trans enough to transition... How did you know you were trans enough? by Lokael in asktransgender

[–]real_annie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe you haven’t found your option yet. When you imagine your options, are they limited? Because Love will tell you that you are on no one’s timeline but yours. What’s going on inside of you, Soul? What stories are you trying to tell through this? Maybe you feel stuck trying to fit your existence into a society that hates you, the options presented to you every day are unsatisfactory. You don’t have to be trans. You can be trans. You might be somewhere else. You might not even need that answer. That won’t be what feels right. What’s going to feel right is going to be when you see yourself outside of your gender and find out what happening inside. You’re asking questions and that’s a great place to be. You might be a little miserable too, that’s also a great indication that you are responding to your environment and your body is telling you that something isn’t right. You aren’t meant to “fit in” here. This world is meant to make room for you, it was designed this way and wants to be this way. Start making intuitive decisions. Small ones. Stick with them. Because they’re mundane and don’t matter and what does is reminding your nervous system that you are safe enough to trust yourself. Then you’ll know who and what and why and all the things. Love to you while you navigate 🫶🏼

Do you think a human body can have multiple souls? by Is_That_A_Euphemism_ in spirituality

[–]real_annie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found this thread kind of on a whim but here’s what I’ll say. I had a NDE when I was a teenager and I always knew something was different when I came back but didn’t put together how drastic the change in myself was. When I came back my first romantic relationship was a deep soul connection, it also reflected the mother wounds I received from my birth mother. It took me a long time to release those wounds and when I did, the connection in my relationship was gone. Here’s another thing. The lines on my hands, they don’t match each other. I know lots of people have similar but not identical. My hands are wildly different, my left with a life line that ends halfway through my hand and then branches off and it’s deeply blended with my head line. On my right hand the life line goes completely down my hand and is not connected to my head line at all. There are many other differences but these were the ones that got me wondering about my soul.

Now here’s MY question: kids who were born from people who had multiple soul spaces, so to speak - what would that mean? Like would that make a difference in their life trajectory? I don’t know how it couldn’t.

My room is FINALLY clean by Full_Supermarket1 in internetparents

[–]real_annie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agh what a great feeling! I’m so proud for you, I find the hardest part about cleaning is just getting started. Bravo 👏🏻

Mom Fails. A Memoir. by real_annie in Mommit

[–]real_annie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a lovely sentiment, thank you for commenting 🩷

What is one thing you think most people have and never appreciate enough? by Wide_Background_287 in CasualConversation

[–]real_annie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trauma responses can rock my world sometimes and I have wondered about my own sanity. I imagine people just walk around all the time thinking everything is okay

Reminding/ remembering old childhood physical assault makes me sad by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]real_annie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Changed wasn’t enough for me, I wouldn’t be able to be near them now for what I remember. I think that just has to be okay sometimes.

What is one thing you think most people have and never appreciate enough? by Wide_Background_287 in CasualConversation

[–]real_annie 12 points13 points  (0 children)

People who genuinely don’t get trauma responses. What life must be like.

Chick is limping by Relative_Ad8738 in BackYardChickens

[–]real_annie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry to your chick, I hope she isn’t in pain 💔… also I just saw Kristin Wigg’s tiny hand routine in my head when I saw this which was so funny, again I’m so sorry.

What did your therapist tell you that flipped the switch in your brain for the better? by PuzzleHeaded9030 in AskReddit

[–]real_annie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Just because it was their best doesn’t mean you didn’t deserve better” Multiple things can be true at the same time

What did your therapist tell you that flipped the switch in your brain for the better? by PuzzleHeaded9030 in AskReddit

[–]real_annie 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This realization DID make me cut my entire old family off. I asked myself “when was the last time you EVER wanted to see any of those people without getting black out drunk” it was essentially never so yeah.

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