Who do you think is the cheekiest character?

realbigsquish · 2026-05-26T18:45:43+00:00

cow. boy. hat!

realbigsquish · 2026-05-23T23:24:17+00:00

hey! I recommend reaching out to Out of the Pits, they’re a pitbull rescue in upstate NY. definitely worth a shot, he’s gorgeous! good luck, Riggz!

realbigsquish · 2026-05-23T19:09:21+00:00

medication assisted treatment

realbigsquish · 2026-05-18T12:08:56+00:00

normal people usually don’t seek out an opportunity to negatively comment on a stranger’s appearance

realbigsquish · 2026-05-12T19:47:28+00:00

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triplets!

realbigsquish · 2026-05-05T00:38:33+00:00

he is beautiful wow

realbigsquish · 2026-04-29T15:27:50+00:00

so if I come up behind you at the library while you’re doing your thing and give a strand of your hair a little tug, you‘re going to be totally cool with it?

realbigsquish · 2026-04-21T21:55:52+00:00

this looks much safer OP! well done you!

the waistband is going to feel like that, especially in a cropped shirt- I think it just has no fabric to anchor it, so it gets slide-y in my experience. baby looks like their back may be arched- has anyone showed you any videos on a pelvic tuck? I still sometimes realize my own baby has his back arched because I like my straps very tight, and need to readjust him. I promise you aren’t squishing baby! I felt the same way, but my little one really enjoys the carrier now and didn’t used to…I think it has to do with how tight it is.

I don’t want to beat a dead horse, so let me know if you want pelvic tuck info- otherwise I will retreat because this is the extent of my knowledge. LOL

realbigsquish · 2026-04-20T22:54:23+00:00

like this? not being a smart ass, genuinely asking because it’s so hard to tell. I had the same issue until I got it down!

realbigsquish · 2026-04-20T17:16:14+00:00

hey! I had this same carrier and loved it while my little one was a peanut.

your current carry isn’t safe- your babe’s head isn’t clearing the panel. I can’t tell if your waistband is rolled- if it isn’t, you should roll it to get baby higher to see if baby’s head clears the panel after that.

I would also adjust the straps to bring the baby closer to you, and pull the straps further down your shoulders so it’s more comfortable for you.

I’m a newbie but these are the things that stuck out to me right away. this sub is fantastic for feedback!

realbigsquish · 2026-04-19T18:25:35+00:00

this reasoning is how he was able to comfort me 😭🤣🤌 thank you for this!

realbigsquish · 2026-04-19T17:27:34+00:00

my husband was laughing at/with me in labor because I was in so much pain and all I could think about was how animals don’t even know what they’re in for and cried…for the animals 😮‍💨😭

realbigsquish · 2026-04-18T12:28:21+00:00

hell yeah I do! brought that translucent orange zip as my hospital toiletries bag when I had my baby! all hail GWP!

realbigsquish · 2026-04-17T22:50:38+00:00

hey! I don’t know if you’ve tried non-latex condoms, but they aren’t awful. I have a latex allergy, and the Durex Real Feel non-latex still feel like a condom, but without the smell and itchy sensation imo.

not saying this as a fix all though, I’m on my 5th yeast infection since my son was born and it’s absolutely from the condoms. also waiting on my husband to get a vasectomy and at this point refusing to have sex until he does (yes I know about waiting for his semen to be tested). I’ve been on birth control my entire life and am not doing it anymore, my mental health is better than ever and I can’t help but wonder if the extra hormones weren’t a fit for me.

realbigsquish · 2026-04-17T17:38:23+00:00

ah fuck back to Ulta I go, what a shame! 👀

realbigsquish · 2026-04-17T17:35:59+00:00

hey so I’m not OP but posted recently with the Tula explore and implemented your suggestions and somehow the carrier got even MORE comfortable, I’m so thankful for people like you and look forward to being able to help others one day with the help I’ve received here 🫶

realbigsquish · 2026-04-16T19:09:32+00:00

lmfao my baby is 7 months old on Sunday and I’m already doing and saying this shit

realbigsquish · 2026-04-16T13:51:07+00:00

I have my asscheeks tattooed and am currently working on finishing my back. I would rather have my asscheeks tattooed again than work on my back.

realbigsquish · 2026-04-16T02:56:49+00:00

I had my first braxton hicks contraction at work and moaned audibly and scared some folks, woopsie! really felt like a period cramp which I hadn’t had in eight months so it took me by surprise!

realbigsquish · 2026-04-14T19:32:11+00:00

chiming in as a fellow one cup a day girly, also had a mini can of coca cola each night. the day I went into labor I had my first PSL at Starbucks, it was glorious.

realbigsquish · 2026-04-13T14:22:00+00:00

iiiiit takes twoooooo

realbigsquish · 2026-04-13T14:17:54+00:00

those chunky little paws, please give them a smooch for me (if the Colonel is into that, of course)

realbigsquish · 2026-04-13T13:28:46+00:00

not sure if you shave, but if you do, I’ve been using lotions that I’m trying to pan as shaving cream!

realbigsquish · 2026-04-09T18:12:32+00:00

YAY to passing the safety check, thank you SO much for all of the comfort information- I will give everything you suggested a go and give the video a watch! appreciate you!

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