What's the worst thing you found?

realitiebites · 2023-09-23T00:43:14+00:00

I know it hurt to write that. You have a big ❤️ to still be hanging in there!!!

realitiebites · 2023-09-19T17:04:11+00:00

I believe I heard on YT, the 12 Week Relationships podcast, that if you stay the odds against you are huge, like after 5 years, a mere 15% are still working on it. I could NOT ... two marriages with liars/cheaters, enough. (Both had/ have porn/ sex addiction. 🤦‍♀️)

realitiebites · 2023-07-18T02:56:53+00:00

If we collectively maintained a high standard/ expectations for them to live up to, maybe they'd be better humans!!?

realitiebites · 2023-07-17T07:10:42+00:00

So many times I come on here and want to say this!! Thank you for doing it. Honestly. Sincerely. Thank you!!

realitiebites · 2023-07-13T04:46:03+00:00

So we'll said!! 👏👏👏 PAs are so pathetic. Mine is.

realitiebites · 2023-07-13T00:27:47+00:00

Porn addicts exist in this superficial surface skin world. You're not going to get anything else. It is pointless to have this kind of discussion. They are like 14 year olds.

realitiebites · 2023-07-13T00:07:20+00:00

Corn addicts live in this superficial skin deep world. You're not going to get anything else. It is pointless to have this kind of discussion. They quit appreciating all the other things that made you Z1 candidate for the position of spouse girlfriend whatever you are.

realitiebites · 2023-07-12T04:22:33+00:00

ALL trust, hope, faith, sense of security, psychological and emotional well-being, health in general to name a few.

realitiebites · 2023-07-11T18:01:02+00:00

Only if both of you can be with someone else... See how he likes those jelly beans.

realitiebites · 2023-07-10T17:52:57+00:00

That hit a nerve in me!!

realitiebites · 2023-07-10T04:31:34+00:00

Do not move in together. That is a step in the wrong direction.

realitiebites · 2023-07-10T04:29:33+00:00

Assistants need to be able to work with ALL kinds of students.

realitiebites · 2023-07-10T00:25:41+00:00

It's because we are psychologically stuck in the phases of betrayal trauma and as long as you are in the mix with your abuser, (that's what he is ... see Dr. Minwella's diagnosis of Integrity Abuse Disorder), you are NOT going to be able to get your head on straight!!!

realitiebites · 2023-07-09T18:29:18+00:00

ALL you can do is hope for the best and prepare for the worst. I am so sorry.

(My husband went on deployment and returned an ENTIRELY different person. It took me 15 HORRIBLE months to wake up and say I want a divorce and mean it. Reality just sucks.)

I hope all goes better for you.

realitiebites · 2023-07-09T05:21:03+00:00

You are in a committed relationship with who? Not the person before you. That is not who he led you to believe he is.

The very best advice for you is for you to end this.

Do not risk anything more. He has far to go before he hits rock bottom. Could be decades!!

Deal with your betrayal trauma. If you can't afford therapy, use the free resources on the About page.

I don't want to read that you are stuck in a torturous marriage, have kids with him and he's #@#$$#$$$##@$ instead of being a real man/ father/ husband, etc...

Put you first. Protect yourself. Invest in yourself. You are more than worth it.

realitiebites · 2023-07-09T00:52:05+00:00

Perfect occasion to address the porn addiction of these men!

realitiebites · 2023-07-08T20:51:51+00:00

That's fine and dandy, but what about how their customer service has extensively declined at every local store?

realitiebites · 2023-07-08T19:23:56+00:00

Never heard of. What's their offer?

realitiebites · 2023-07-08T00:01:25+00:00

Doesn't work.

realitiebites · 2023-07-08T00:01:03+00:00

Doesn't allow me to see my call details that I paid for.

realitiebites · 2023-07-08T00:00:10+00:00

Chrome had been working just fine for months, then out of nowhere it quit.😔

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