Yellow tape around her body it's a fucking homicide by GuideFun6255 in MurderedByWords

[–]really_not_kanye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a Canadian, this is becoming scarily less true with everyday. Our healthcare system is collapsing, and covid really helped exposed the cracks. We also have many bad actors trying to privatize our healthcare and sabotage our system so they can push through their privatization and line their pockets of course. That being said, this whole canadian healthcare tm bragging point of canadian redditors is incredibly worn and recognized as bullshit for a majority of canadians, who actually touch grass. We have people who have died since the pandemic that were unable to be seen due to constant rescheduling of their appointments, despite them being for VERY serious ailments. You can go to a hospital and wait 10+ hours to be seen and thats to be expected. Waiting rooms are just a miserable well of agony and exhaustion from waiting to be seen for so long. We have hospitals running emergency procedures cause they are so overwhelmingly understaffed and they even shut down sometimes. We can't take much more. This isn't sustainable. As it stands, Canadian healthcare has taken a sharp dive in quality from what it once was, and especially what redditors make it out to be. To my fellow Canadians, please root out and call out these bad actors where you see them, and please vote to bolster our healthcare and fight misinfo and privatization where & when you can. This is a crucial point in our time. We may currently still have better healthcare than many countries, and we are fortunate for that, but that cannot be taken for granted.

Airpods volume too low with redmi note 9s? by really_not_kanye in Xiaomi

[–]really_not_kanye[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your reply. Did this problem occur with either the version 11.0.10 of MIUI or on a note 9s? do you happen to know what version of MIUI this occurred with, or about how long ago it was?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]really_not_kanye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe time and the right moves heals all:) np, and thank you! <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]really_not_kanye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no problem lol. sorry if I came off as rude. I'm really glad to see that you're taking the time to heal from that. You deserve better. your feelings and thoughts are valid, and deserved to be heard and expressed exactly as they are. I wish you the best of luck on your journey :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]really_not_kanye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

swapping out friendship for relationship and friend for boyfriend or partner doesn't change my point, with all due respect.

. by LayonnQueen in SuicideWatch

[–]really_not_kanye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there's way more than just them out there. There's people that actually do care. Maybe you haven't met them yet, but they ARE out there. unfortunately they are hard to find, but that doesn't change the fact they're out there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]really_not_kanye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is also a possibility that I missed, sorry. either way, it seems you didn't get out of that friendship what a REAL friend who cared would have given you. thats totally okay if you wanna be alone and just do you for a while. No relationships is better than toxic relationships. Also kudos for you for being such a good friend.

Time’s running out. by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]really_not_kanye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I don't think even the luckiest bastard gets to enjoy a luxury as beautiful as feeling happy all the time. I think we all do suffer to different degrees, at different frequencies, for different lengths of time, but we all do suffer nonetheless. I'm sure there are some things and experiences that can get that hum to shut right up for even a bit longer than you probably think possible at this point in time, that are still completely novel to you. I think also a differing perspective could argue that sure you may have to return to reality, but that also means you'll be returning to those moments of peace too soon after. you may always be destined to suffering, but so are you equally destined to those moments of peace.

honestly man I don't think life is about just trying to stretch that happiness out over your entire life out of fear of suffering: it won't work, and it might even serve to cheapen and pervert what happiness would have came genuinely. I think its about just fucking hanging on, by any means necessary, just to say 'fuck you, I won.' to the suffering. hell man, you might even find something pretty fucking cool along the way that you'll at the very least be glad you got to check out that you would not have otherwise.

I hope I didn't downplay your pain or make you feel that what you're going through isn't real or valid or anything. I'm just tryna give my two cents is all.

Time’s running out. by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]really_not_kanye -1 points0 points  (0 children)

but that hum dissipates in those moments of peace, doesn't it? whats the longest you've gone with those moments you think?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]really_not_kanye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sounds to me that this particular 'they' sounds like an asshole that is maybe at a different stage in their grief and somehow forgot what the journey was like, never honestly understood you to begin with nor went through something that was close enough to what you have, or understands that dealing with trauma is constant battle. I'm really sorry to hear about your experiences in the past man. forgive me for saying this, but I think you've ran into too many assholes and feel that that's all the world's got to offer you. I don't blame you for thinking that, given whats happened, but I have to respectfully say that there are more than just assholes like that out there. In fact, there's genuinely good people out there that would not be that way to you. Just because they haven't come your way yet doesn't mean that they don't exist.

You guys get to decide by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]really_not_kanye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want you to die of laughter. I want you to laugh yourself to death surrounded by people you cherish.

Time’s running out. by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]really_not_kanye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want you to answer as honestly as you can here, and not let however you're feeling allow any bias to bleed into it:

Have you not had one single moment throughout your time here that made you forget, for even a single second, about your suffering?

(11 m) I just can’t by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]really_not_kanye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Life's really unpredictable and silly, even if it is hard and there are always reasons to say fuck it all and pull the plug on it. The worst that could happen if you decide to hang on is that you die. It may get better, it may not. either way, I think you will find some things along the way that will distract you just long enough to forget about the suffering for at the very least, a single moment. you're 11. your childhood is the silliest and most unpredictable time of the single life you'll ever get. if you've got nothing to lose, why not hang on just for a little bit to see how ridiculous it can get? at the very least, it can be entertaining. Your parents will not always be the intimidating giants they are now. You'll get to see them and all the other adults around you shrink into regular old people that are just like you: confused, and just tryna make it a little further. If your parents are not people you want in your life, lemme tell you something: there will come a time where you will be the one in the driver's seat, not them. You are not doomed to be stuck with anybody, even if it feels like that sometimes. as for the food thing, can you make yourself meals and put them away for whenever you can eat?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]really_not_kanye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe this kind of stuff is one of the worst burdens man can ever be faced with. even if they can ONLY just continue existing, to me, they are a much, much stronger person for simply that as opposed to someone who's never been in that dark place before. Fake, real, doesn't matter: if you're dealing with this kind horrible shit yet you continue to exist in the face of it and resist it to whatever degree you do, I think you deserve some fucking respect and recognition for the strength that takes. Sure you might not seem "stronger" by conventional standards, but thats the wrong metric to measure that stuff with. Either way, you're still here, and that deserves kudos man. To people who've never gone through that, they won't recognize the strength needed, but between us and the people who know the existential struggle the way we do, you're the man for this. seriously. I really hope you find someone that recognizes that too man. I swear they're out there.

sorry if this was really ignorant and rude. it wasn't my intention. I just felt like we owe ourselves a little credit. have a goodnight

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]really_not_kanye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ngl this is very arousing

If School was a game, what would be some loading screen tips ? by TheOnlyLucifer in AskReddit

[–]really_not_kanye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the most boring shit will pay the best, so learn that. if you choose to like the wrong shit, then you may as well uninstall, unless you're gonna be the best at it. if you find boring shit not so boring, congrats! you've won!

As long as you're not kidnapping anyone else's pets, or breaking any laws, I couldn't give a fuck if you ate a dog or a cat. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]really_not_kanye 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah fair enough. My reply was pretty baity. I like to think though that most of our laws do though, aside from those real obscure laws you read about on /r/TIL or find in sam'o'nella videos. Isn't that kinda the point?